Is there really anything i can do??!

Well let me make this simple: my brother is 19 and hes NEVER been kissed...hes only had one gf and it lasted for a month..yet he neveer kissed her becuz she kept telling him that she wasnt ready..hes so depressed and angry about life..ive been trying to find him a gf but its so hard to find someone to talk to him..but he gets mad at me when he thinks im not trying anymore..yesterday he told me that as soon as college is over he is leaving for good..he even said that hes tired of love from the family and the only thing he wants right now is love from a girl..i dont know what to do..i want to help him but i dont know how..all my compassion and speeches to him just make him more angry..he doesnt want ideas, he wants action..i just feel like hes digging himself a deep hole and i have no idea how to get him out..HELP ME PLEASE?

He needs to love himself before anyone will love him. thats the truth.
why isnt HE trying to be sociable and find a girl?

I think the first and worst part of your brothers problems is that he is asking you to find someone for him. He gets mad at you for not finding a suitable partner quick enough ... ?

I mean no offence, your brother really, really needs to get out there himself and start looking. I'm guessing that he has low self esteem and low morale and self depreciation etc .. That will not leave him until he figures out for himself that he is capable of going out and speaking to girls.

If he has a nice personality, he will have no problems holding a conversation with a girl .. That's half the battle won.

My advice to you would be to take him out with you one day, point him in the right direction and tell him to make a move for himself.

I hope it works out for you... I hope it works out for your brother even more.

~Pete.

All i can say is you really shouldnt be trying to find him a gf. If he is ment to have one then one will come along but maybe he just shouldnt have one at this point in time...Maybe God is trying to teach him something before he gets into another relationship or maybe he just doesnt feel mentaly or emotionally ready right now but he is scared to admit it...I really dont think that there is anything you can do other then wait and see what happens.

The girl is going to date him not you