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Wow that title sounded like a porn title. But I have a question. How can a guy be afriad to call a girl?
6 months and my boyfriend has never called me once.
I've called him thousands of times but never once has he called me! How do I talk to him? ONLINE! Which sucks because he is barely there. And when he is there all he says is "I love you" but how do I know if he really does... if there is no proof... just words and all he does is kiss me when we are together. He thinks roses and gifts fix everything but they don't. It pisses me off and my friends think he's dumb. What do I do to make him call?? Or care...

6 mths .. and hes never called you??? .. wow thats crazy . i know most guys dont leik teh phone but thats later in teh realtionship.communication is key in order to make ne relationship werk takes 2 ppl to b fully involved.tell him how you feel but seriuosly how do u even make plans and go out thats really insane.and actions speak way louder than werds.u have every right to b mad well good luck.

But he is never there!
I don't see him while I'm at college because he's in none of my classes..And He is always hanging out with this girl that is his 'friend' I just want to talk to him. If I tell him that he is never there he gets mad..And I make all the plans!! never him.. I tried to let him once and we ended up not doing anything.
6 months and no courage to call me..
I try and smile.. but after my fiance left and I was cheated on I cannot be happy. I just really want to be truely loved for once..

People tell me he looks like he uses me. Like apparently I'm 'better' than him.. which I think is a lie. But none of my friends like how he drains the energy out of me.. and I don't trust guys very much anymore.. Maybe he isn't man enough.. but I don't know how long I cna wait anymore.. 6 months is a pretty long time..
But thanks

erica u deserve better. he doenst reallys oudn leik hes even worth ur time. he doenst call you .. he doenst ,make plans .. you hardly see him so really whats teh point in even havi ng a realtionship with soemone like that.im sry ur fiance left you but your find taht one guy dont give up on it but this current one doenst sound liek teh one. find a guy who will put as much effort inot a realtionship as your willign to put in. no relationship will werk if it isnt 50/50. good luck hun

Thanks.. but for some reason I just keep saying 'no' when people say 'dump him'...

Obviously a loser.. o.o;
I don't know why he won't call me. I've called him! I've given him my number!

I did both of those.
He just yells at me.. and it ends up me apologizing so he doesn't go commit suicide or some stupid shit e.e

Not threatens.. well.. sorta.. yeah I guess it is..
But I'm kinda afriad to break up with him.. I don't know. Maybe it is best.

..I'll never find a great guy... I really think there is something messed up with me.. they all leave.. or I'm forced to leave them.
Maybe I'm ugly.
Or something..

Thanks for all your help =)
Confusing but I just can't break up with people unless I REALLY WANT TO!
Then I dance afterwards but anyways.. I'm just kinda 'chicken' when it comes to breaking up.

Ugh, I don't know what to do anymore.. I talk to him and then I make him sad that he doesn't even care that I was sad for like a week because he never talked to me. Depressing.. I just want to die.

you shouldnt feel so down on urself.this guy totally isnt worth your time. being alone is beter than being wiht someone who doenst apprecaiet you the way you deserve.i felt id never find any one taht noone would possibly love me then i met myhusband and everything changed.you have tp keep strong and know taht the right guy is out there lookign for you =).im sure your beautiful and smart and have tons to offer any guy dont settle for less tahn you deserve.

I wish I was married..
I wish I was happy..
I wish I could have a family that loves me..
Seems like I've been wishing a lot for something that is clearly never going to happen.

I would not be in a relationship unless it was one in which we each made each feel good about ourselves. It sounds like you are lacking this and it is not likely to change. What's the point in being with someone if he doesn't make you feel special? I dated on and off for years. With each of those guys, I quickly recognized that there was little hope in achieving a mutually fulfilling and enduring relationship. And that is the point where things ended. If I had just been willing to "settle," I would not have had the opportunity to eventually find true love and to enjoy real happiness in my life.

Oh, and about calling, we talk almost every day and we both initiate calls. If I had to make all the calls or could never reach him, it would be adios. The night we met we stayed up talking until nearly 4 AM and I had to go to work that morning. Around 9 AM he called me on my cell and started singing "Good Mornin' Life." That was all the inspiration I needed to get through the day.

AHHHHHH!!! I'M SO PISSED!
Ok first I thought I got him! I was there and I said "call me!" and then he said "Ok after I go get some food" WELL I heard from my friend that he was talking to that girl like usual and he said "Oh yeah I was supposed to call Erica but I forgot my phone. Oh well."
..I think I'm going to jump off a cliff now.

omg hes such a loser dotn waste ur time on a guy who spends all his time with naotehr female.you deserve alot better dont settle for garbage.keep your haed up and leave the past behind including all the losers and start fresh.

=/ but he's so cuuuuuuuute....... lol.

There are plenty of cute fish in the sea.
Don't waste your time on an asshole. And remember; looks aren't everything!

Yeah I know.. I kid..