So confused...

  • shes a killer
    17 years ago

    Ok so its kind of a long story, and alot of things have played a huge part...
    well junior year me and a friend of mine got close to one another and talked about going out with each other but we both had someone we were dating. so i broke up woth my bf and he never broke up with his gf. by the time he broke up with his gf i was back with my bf.
    so we stopped talknig for awhile because he still really cared for me. we recently started talking again, for about 2 months and i find that i really really like him and want to be with him. so i decided to go on a break with my bf and i texted to tell him that and he got mad at me, thing is i didn't use good words. i said "i know you don't care..but it's over." he thought i meant me and him were over, and now he won't talk to me...
    i'm so confused, i mean he's insane, like really lol and i absolutely love him, but i can't get him to talk to me because he misunderstood my text, and i told him that too...but he won't talk to me.
    he told my best friend he doesn't want to deal with it anymore because of the text he thought i meant.

    so what should i do??
    should i fight for him??
    or leave him alone and let it go?

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    "so we stopped talking for awhile because he still really cared for me"

    How that makes sense, I do not know.

    And question: After you broke up with your first boyfriend, did you get back with him again after your supposed real love didn't dump his girl for you?

    Either way. Here's my view on this:

    It's a good thing you've taken a break with the first boyfriend. In fact, don't bother going back to him. He doesn't deserve treatment like this. You've made it evident that you do not understand the value of a relationship. Your crush did a great job telling your friend he wants nothing to do with you, even if he misinterpreted what you meant. He won't have to deal with someone as selfish as you. Leave him and let it go. Leave the first boyfriend and let it go You are confused. You are young. You are not ready for 'love'.

  • Beautiful Chaos
    17 years ago

    ^^Ditto