Help Im moving and in love

  • CODACHROME
    17 years ago

    Well I just found out that my mum got a job she applied for in western australia but the problem is im currently living in queensland, she asks me if im happy about it and as always I pretend I am but now im not.

    since finding out that im moving the guy I like has become interested in me well again but that stories complicated because he is going out with another guy should I put my life on hold for somthing that possibly wont happen or should I leave and pretend nothing would or ever could happen bewtween us

    im lost and confused whats ur opinion

  • Jessica Evelyn Maxwell
    17 years ago

    Must agree, move on, better off to move on with your life and be in control of your future. then to wait on someone who might not wined up being there for you.

  • Bret Higgins
    17 years ago

    Hey, new town, new opportunities.

    Once you're settled you'll be fine and, no doubt, find someone who is just as compelling, if not more.

  • CODACHROME
    17 years ago

    But its not that easy like I no me being 15 and all I shuldnt no wat love is but I do like wen he told me he was dating another guy I cried becuz he noes I love him so much
    yet he continues to talk about his new boyfriend and I no his bi cuz he told me and yer he noes I love him but just goes on and on about him without a notion about my feelings but the thing is he is my bestest friend and has been for ages I just dont no wat to do

  • Bret Higgins
    17 years ago

    It sounds to me that he likes you as a friend and nothing more.

    Weigh up the pros and cons. What's good about him and the situation and what's bad about them.

    I will give you one piece of advice that you will only learn from experience:

    Sometimes it is better to leave a loved on be, they'll forever be perfect because you never got to know them.

    Case in point for me, Nicola Harrington. Man I loved that girl but she had a fella so I never pushed it. she knew I liked her and I knew she liked me and we spent time together but nothing ever happened because she respected me more for not trying anything.

    When ever I think of her I smile and hope beyond all hope that she's living the life that she really wants.

  • Polaroid
    17 years ago

    Wow thats really sweet bret, anyways to your topic, I think that you should go right out front and tell him exactly how you feel, and then see what he says, another great idea would be to move on, keep in touch with him but move on, its hard, but you can do anything that you set your mind to....

    yours truly
    polaroid

  • Sarah Louise
    17 years ago

    There are loads of more fish in the sea...
    He's with someone else, and there is nothing you can do about that... Even if you do stay and he doesn't leave this other person you'll feel for hurt. Remember, if you move you might find someone else, who's interested in you and is single! Think positive! Haha.

  • Dian PH
    17 years ago

    JUST BE YOUR SELF... YOU KNOW WHAT'S RIGHT AND WRONG... FOR ME YOU SHOULD MOVE ON... COS FOR ME... LIFE WERE STILL GO ON... NO MATTER TRIALS YOUD FACED RIGHT NOW... JUST BE STRONG AND DON'T GIVE UP... CHILL UP GIRL...