Confused...*what should i say to him, should i say anything??*

Ok..i dont want to get into the wholeee story but i will tell you pretty much whats going on..ok..i HATE myspace..its so stupid..i only have a pg to keep in contact with a couple ppl i went to grammar school with..well..im sorta dating this guy right now, he goes to my school and hes a senior too..the thing is:hes kind of a flirt..i mean..i would be okay with a little bit of harmless flirting because im not controllive and i want him to know that i trust him..but, i dont know if i can.

SEE, yesterday i was chatting with him on myspace and i saw a gurl that was trying to hit on him on his comments...i was cool with it until i found out that he gave her his number and was telling her to call him..i questioned him about it but he lied and said that he didnt and that she was crazy..ughh i just dont understand!..i HATE arguments and confrontations..i just plainly hate negative feelings and so on..i know he lied and it made me mad but i just let it be..i found out not too long ago that hes STILL talking to her..i dont know what to do...i dont know if i should give him an ultimatum(i dont know if i spelled that right? lol) or if i should just move on..i really really like him and im not sure if maybe im just being too picky and maybe even slightly controllive or if im acting the way anybody else would act in this situation..should i lay off or should i question him or what????? im soooo confused please help me..and please be kind with your comments.. :) thanks..

Personally i'd question him.
id question the hell out of him.
subtley, of course.

I agree, keep cool though, don't come out to strong.

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If it was innocent he would not have to lie about it. A lie is a lie is a lie, if it is nothing more than friendship than what is there to hide? Picky and controlling because you prefer your bf not lie to you? No. I would be mad too and he would be gone.

I disagree. I think you should end it. He lied to you, which is the first major mistake in a relationship!

Second of all, he gave out his number to a girl he doesn't know, sounds suspicous to me.

I think you should move on. He is lying to you and that could be a never ending issue!

A relationship is based on trust and if you don't have trust then you have nothing at all.

because if he has lied to you over and over again about this girl then he is not worth the trouble of getting your feelings hurt.

he really doesn't want you finding out what is really going on with this girl