Is it wrong?

  • BreakMyWingsAndRun
    17 years ago

    Ok i have this friend and he likes me A LOT!! but i like him too and we have went out before but it ended because we never get to see each other. my parents won't let me go anywhere with him so i never get to see him. is it wrong not to go out with him even tho i like him too? he told me that he would wait on me no matter how long it takes.
    But i don't know what to do...

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    It is not wrong.
    If your parents do not allow you to see him,
    in my opinion, that'd be a waste. Sorry to say.
    It is nice of him to wait for you..
    But you don't want him to be waiting too long.

    Have you talked to your parents about him?
    If so.. Then I'm not too sure what you CAN do..
    Unless you want to go against your parents, which I do not advise.

    Good luck.

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    I can understand why your parents don't want you to go anywhere with him. (Pre-teen pregnancy) I think you should just wait.

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    I was in this situation once. Except it was him who couldn't see me, and me saying I'll wait (our time period was 2 years). After a few weeks and some thinking we decided that that would not be the best idea. Most of the time it isn't worth the wait. Especially if this is one of those early teenage crushes. There will be so many more opportunities comming your way in the next few years, so don't settle now. It'll just hurt.
    Anyways, that's the way I see it.

    --Viola

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    Well, maybe but if your parents don't approve then I wouldn't test it. I wish you all the luck though =]

  • Sarah Louise
    17 years ago

    Get your parents to meet this boy, then they might think different.
    But you really can't keep this boy waiting too long otherwise it'll just put him off...

  • BrokenREALiTy
    16 years ago

    What's wrong with it? Many of my friends never got with their boyfriends until over a year after they revealed their feelings to each other, and they were able to see each other as often as they wanted too. There's no shame or harm in seeing how it's gonna go. If he's gonna wait, let him wait. If you don't know what to do, it's best not to rush in or do something irrational. See how it goes with time and make your decision later instead of fretting now.

    ..__MiNDYY