Totally CONFUSED!!!!

  • Independent
    17 years ago

    Ok so tonight me and a huge group of friends are going out to this bowlin alley/club thing that they have on saturday nights. Well the night before i was supposed to go out but i didnt because no one haf any money. But i had already told my ex boyfriend about the plans i had for tonight. And my crush. yes i have this boy that really likes me and i like him but im in love with my boyfriend. BUt now my boyfriend has decided to surprise me and come home from his away football game. So now my ex,my crush, and my boyfriend all going to be togther!! how do i keep them from fighting and what do i do, should i lie to someone?!!! I'M SOOO CONFUSED PLEASE HELP ME!!!

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    17 years ago

    Lols K, that doesn't really help her right now though =p Anyway, I've been there and I know it's hard and confusing lols If you need to introduce them sometime through the night just introduce them as friends and if they all know eachother and don't get along then just talk to your boyfriend about it and ask him not to cause any problems as a favor to you ^_^

  • Lenny
    17 years ago

    Tsh!
    The ex isn't a problem, but the boyfriend and crush are! Perhaps you should introduce them, then they can both not like you anymore! That was mean. I apologise.

    Lets see....advice....you could just not go. Spend some quality time with your boyfriend :) Maybe you guys need it. Take your mind off this crush.

  • Dian PH
    17 years ago

    Wath make you confuse?

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    If you have a serious enough crush on someone that it's going to make things awkward with your boyfriend, then you have a much bigger problem then you think.

    Dump your boyfriend, forget about your crush, and spend some time with your friends and concentrating on yourself until you figure out what you want.

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    I think this, in a way, will be good for you! At this time you can come clean to everyone about everyone and just tell all of them about eachother so now you wont have to worry about it anymore i mean wouldnt you be mad if your boyfriend had a crush and ex in his life the way you do?

  • ihrtschlepper
    17 years ago

    What britt said....

    but u said u rly like ur bf sooo, just 4get bout the crush, or concentrate on just being friends...

  • Independent
    16 years ago

    Na i wouldnt never dump my boyfriend for my crush i love my boyfriend. theh night worked out well acctually. But thx for your advise it was really heplful. But that night is over and i hope it never has to happen again.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Well ur ex has to under stand that u moved on....and ur crush well i dont think u should no one else if u have a bf i mean its ok to think sum 1 is cute but u shouldnt tell them u liike them....and i mean ur bf needs to uderstand u have guy friends too and if he gets mad that just means he dont have ne self confidence!