So I'm love with my best friend...

  • Zeus
    17 years ago

    I met her about a year ago and I fell for her. One day I decided to tell her what I felt and she told me the famous quote, "Lets just be friends". This really hurt me inside but I evetually got over it. We ended up becoming best friends. But between now and then feelings for her returned on many occasions. I still tell her how I feel sometimes to see if this feeling I have is there for a reason, to see if there's any chance. I'm fed up with this situation. I just want to be friends with her, but I don't know how to kill this feeling. May someone please give me advice.

    Thanks. I really appreciate it. :)

  • Marc Ortiz
    17 years ago

    MAYBE she has feelings for you too.. but she doesn't want to ruin your relationship 'best friends' but who knows..

    If you can't be her lover be her best friend.

    Stay near her coz a time may come that she'll like/love you too and if you really like/love her you have to wait...

    And yeah I know the feeling if someone told you "Let's just be friends" But be thankful.. coz you're still friends with her.

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    Well i really dont know what to say other then all you can do is respect what she wants and if all she wants is to be friends then thats what you need to respect. I think you need to appreciate what you two do have.

  • Zeus
    17 years ago

    Thanks for the help guys. :)

  • HaileyHelen
    17 years ago

    I agree with yellow! hes always right!

  • So Wrong its Right
    16 years ago

    I liked my best friwnd too so i know how you feel. Sometimes you just have to accept the fact that you are friends and when you get older, you will value the friendship because most feelings come and go. Unless you really love her then you can't give up, just give her some time.