How do i finally get over her????

My ex and me were really close even though we were not together and had made plans on gettin back with each other but now.... out of nowhere she tells me that she got with someone else. thing is that i still love her and is really hurt by what happen. i want to get over her but i dont know how. we still talk and she wants me there for her but i dont want the pain anymore... so really need to know how do i finally get over her???

Only you can rid yourself of the pain, if it is too much to talk to her and be around her, walk away completely, you'll never move on if you are still holding on.

^I agree. Trust me, I know from experience...keeping them in your life, and especially as a good friend, brings up so many barriers in trying to completely get over the person.

I have this trouble with my ex boyfriend. he says he wants me but he shoses everyone else. so i told myeslfe im done with it. u dont need to be hurt by someone else. i would just drop comminucation and if she wants u so bad she will realize how bad your hurting. if its true she will come back

Seperation is key.

Everyone always says, "Oh. I want to still be friends."

You can't be near someone in a friendly manner when you have been in love with them and want to just be friends. It's going to hurt and you're going to want more. Not saying you said, "I want to be friends." Just giving an example.

What you do, is seperate yourself. No contact for a little while from her. If she wants other people, she has lack of dedication. You need to avoid that.

Give yourself room to breathe.

Perfect answer ^

If she has moved on, and has someone else, then she definitely doesn't need you to "be there for her". And don't worry. You'll get over her. Just try not to dwell on the past, cause that will never change. Live in the future, because it is in your hands.

Alex

I completely agree with the separation idea.

I tried to "be there" for an ex & hoped we could be friends. But it is IMPOSSIBLE.

You need space... that's the only way you can move on.