Really bad relationship issue!

Well here is the problem...how do you stop making yourself feel about someone who treats you like absoulte rubish and you have had not a very good past with them and they continue to say they love you and change their mind...I can't stop thinking and feeling and wanting to try again in this relationship, im not weak and im not confussed. I know it's wrong but, I just don't know what to do! what is wrong with me!??! he continuely throws off at me and he even swore at me like all the worst possible names ever and he has written all this bad stuff and POSTED IT ON SOME WEBSITE WHICH IS SO NOT TRUE! I think I keep wanting to try becuase I know he doesnt mean it,

I NEED HELP PLEASE! help me to get him out of my head and life!! please,!!

^^true, true. You are letting him treat you like crap and you are considering continuing to let him treat you like crap. Sometimes it is easier to stay in a crap relationship because it is all we know and anything new is scary. Learn something new, be adventurous and pretend you deserve better than someone who would slander you and treat you like dirt.

It isn't very hard to understand, dear.

"im not weak and im not confussed."

In denial. Yes, you are very weak and might I add, in excessive bewilderment. If you were not, then you would know exactly how to sort your situation out and never give coming here for advice a second thought. If you are constantly prepared to go through crap and take this boys word for being a better person, then I salute you.

That's my advice. Helpful or not; you decide.

Oh my god, i atcually really am in denial arnt i, i am extremely weak and vonerable.....geese....but that still doesnt answer my question,

WHAT DO I DO NOW!!??!?!?

In this situation you have to choose between your brain or your heart.

Your heart loves him, but your brain is telling you no.

but the question is do you love yourself enough to let him go?
but unfortunately I can't answer that for you, but it seems like your love is not enough to keep this relationship going.

maybe try a break to see what life is like without him, if it doesn't work out figure out a way to stay in the relationship so you don't get hurt, you need to talk to him.

alos, honestly it was wrong for him to post pooh-pooh about you on that website, but remember they're just strangers.

Yeah i am so stupid! i should just tell him to leave me alone forever, but now he is blaming for everything, im so destrort i hate myself for loving him so much, but i dont even think i love him, i just think idesperate....what ever it is, i need some good tactics cause im so lost thanks for ur opinion anyone else? please....much apreciated

Yeah i am so stupid! i should just tell him to leave me alone forever, but now he is blaming for everything, im so destrort i hate myself for loving him so much, but i dont even think i love him, i just think idesperate....what ever it is, i need some good tactics cause im so lost thanks for ur opinion anyone else? please....much apreciated

I've been in your situation one too many times.
I broke up with them. Meanwhile, for a few months afterwards he called continuously crying begging for forgiveness.

You know what made me strong, even though when this stuff happened I wasn't, before the final break up?

I found someone else. That someone else and me were in a relationship for a week. But he helped my confidence raise through the roof. I realized so much, realized that I don't need to be treated that way. No one does.

It took months of pain and having to change my number and email, but I came out so much stronger.

PM to talk.

You know what he's doing, YOU know your worth so much more than this,,,,, sooooooo prove it to yourself and pick yourself up babe

Wow...u shouldnt let him treat u liike that but i mean im in the same situation....just keep ur head high and tell urself u dont need him!

Yeah.....it's gotten easier, I mean ive resorted to reading and told him basically to get stuffed.....so yeah its taken my mind off things.....still hard but i guess thats life...just sooo angry that I atcually let someone treat and tell me that! disgusted with myself! but i dont no who i am so...i mean what do i expect?

Awww i understand i felt like that 2...its just good that you have found something to keep ur mind of things.....
keep it up, and remember he is a piece of trash not u!

Yeah.......i agree he is, i hope he falls in a hole lol

LOL ditto