Loseing everything and need help......... dont know what to do

I am loseing everything, my friends, my family, my hope, my intrest in life, everything..... one of my close friends died awhile ago and im not over it yet, my family is splitting and getting a divorce, i cant focus in class, i am cutting agian, and more, i lost my bf i was with for 3 years..... idk i need help.....

I try to keep occupied with reading and writeing but lately it hasnt been helping..... im stong for my age. or so i have been told... and what all i have went through.... but i have never been this scared.... and i cant stop cutting myself and since ppl have seen it now they pretend they care... but before they didnt so i see right throu them...... i am sorry for situtation..... i hope it gets better..... i really do.... well post back........ thanks too.......... ALOT

It sucks when you feel like your life is falling apart,obviously you are strong because you are still here. It can be hard to distract your mind when you are in mourning, you lost a friend, you family is brekaing apart, you lost your bf, but I swear things will get better, find something that distracts you and make syou happy, pour yourself into, find things that make you feel good and keep you social, that can help with the cutting as well, I know that is what worked for me, but we are all different. I hope it all works out.

I know what its like to lose a close friend a close friend of mine died at the start of the year and im still not over it... nothing anyone says to yo can make you feel better and you cut because its the only thing you can really realy on.. try not to think of the bad sides of things like your parents spilting just think if they did you would get 2 christmas and birthdays and have to fight for your affection... you may feel like your losing your friends but have you talked to them so they know how your feeling?

Yea i have noticed that.... lol....... but i cant think of the good things i try i do but somehow they get all twisted up and end up so horrid and mean and idk it is just bad...... and thanks for your guys help... it means alot.... i will try and get help.... but idk if i can promise anything..... i am not a talker to say.... i am all alone all the time....... id love to hear more ideas........ so dont be afraid to answer me thanks a million.......

Hey, I know what you're going through. I'm in the same predicament right now. Well, sort of. I, too, feel as though I am losing all. I feel so alone and left out. I'm beginning to shun others out of my life. My friends included. I see no point in my life anymore because the guy I love moved away. My mom and dad. .that's. .just complicated. But even though I see no point for my existence. I refuse to give in to my dark thoughts. I will let myself go when the time is right. .And cutting is really bad. Maybe you should talk to someone. Like a counselor?

A couple of years ago my best friend moved away without telling me. then our other best freind died of cancer. then i find out that my b/f for 6 years had been cheating on me the whole time we ere dating. put that on top of my problems with my step dad and you have one shity life... but i'm getting through it one day at a time. if you need to talk just private message me K? things will get better. they always do...

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Just take it one day at a time, try out new activities like sports or cooking. Fresh air can do you wonders. Just remember that you have friends and family (and us here at P&Q) who care about you. :) Best wishes