Oh gosh I really don't know what to do!

  • my name is Llama
    17 years ago

    Don't you find a lot of people on this forum really "don't know what to do"..the amount of posts currently on page one all ask the same question.

    What I don't know and would really like to know is if you think we know the answers to your I don't know's?

    How about asking someone in your life, they will most likely be more fully equiped to answer your questions and know more about you to understand it in the first place.

    If not at least think of a more amusing headline because who know's maybe there just might be someone who really does know...

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    I was waiting for a thread like this.
    I thought "It is only a matter of time"
    and look. Someone has cracked.

    No matter what you say,
    People will do as they please.
    Unless they get banned or something.
    Regardless, they have the right to make those threads..
    & if you do not want to look at them.. Don't.

    If you feel you can help them,
    by all means, do so.
    But don't sit here and basically complain about it.
    Complaining gets you no where.

    Buh byeeee (:

  • my name is Llama
    17 years ago

    If you do not want to look at them.. Don't.

    ^ and I usually don't. I am merely stating how monotonous people are. I am a firm believer that people can only do so much and the rest is up to them. Sometimes people need a little kick up the rump to understand it. When people say "I don't know" they don't really not know they just haven't thought about it or don't want to. The answers you seek are inside rather the wanting them from others go find them for yourself.

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Llama, I agree with you, I wasn't saying that I was not.
    It's just that you cannot change the way people think.
    They are still gonna post those threads..
    Thinking that other people can help them make a decision..
    Rather than themselves.

    You cannot help it.
    They can help it, but choose not to.
    It's as easy as that, really.

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Look, not being harsh here
    But some people reach a point where everything seems to shut down and their mind is blank, they have no idea what they are doing, where they are going and are basically mentally lost.
    They sometimes don't feel they can talk to family members or friends because it is too painful or because of personal reasons.
    They come here because they can get an unbiased reply of someone who will never judge them because they don't know them.
    Yes, sometimes they know the answer inside, but it helps to have an outsiders view. It helps to know you're doing the right thing. And sometimes they truely don't know what to do and are asking for advice.
    It helps some people and in the past it has helped me and i like to think i have helped some people on here when other people couldn't. I feel i have done some good when i have.

    So just because you have never felt that way, don't have a go at the people who do.
    And as for the repetiton, when you feel so lost you don't know who to turn to, lets see how well you can word how you're feeling.

    Peace out.
    *Gem*

  • my name is Llama
    17 years ago

    Haha i think it's halarious that people are so quick to jump down my throat when really it was only a 'joke'. i do work for a service that is solely for helping people vire the internet, so i know how important it can be for young people. I have nothing against those who seek help and to pose the question "just because you have never felt that way"...yes because we all know what i've felt. you see when i did feel that lost i wasn't typing and chit chating on the internet about it. i mean seriously people lighten up, rather then getting angry with someone who simply states their opinion. I mean half of you on here complain about being bulleyed and mentally abused, if you don't like it done to you then don't do it to others just because they happen to disagree with you. But then again what would i know, apparently i haven't experienced anything at all.

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    ^ please don't be a child about this with your little sly comments such as "But then again what would i know, apparently i haven't experienced anything at all."

    No one said that, i merely said you may not have experienced what they are going through themselves.

    And on a side note, something you just don't joke about.