Hes in jail and im here alone

My bf is in jail and he didnt do anything wrong all that happened is his friend wrecked his car and he was driving it home and he wasent running from the cops and they said he was and they said he was selling drugs when he wasent he had his medication that he needs to take to be able to be around ppl in his pocket cause he dosent take his pill bottles with him cause his friends like to steel his pills thats why he put them in his pocket and then they threw out his case and then the state reviewed it and now hes in jail for 6 months and idk how im going to handle this help me pls!!?!?!?!

Wow hun all i can say in hang in there. are you compeltley sure that your bf wasnt selling anything? the police arent just gonna make something up....

^^Ditto Britt

he took his pills out of his pill bottle and threw it away. It is pretty easy to prove you have a prescription even if you don't have the bottle. The puzzle is missing pieces.

Whether it's absolutely true or not, your boyfriend is a criminal. Your 16 years old just get another boyfriend, he's in jail getting one right now, so why souldn't you do the same??

Ouch!

Ok wow this is crazy... i hate the system... i kinda went through the same thing...just stay by his side and let him know that u r there for him.. the system is hard to beat but if u know ppl in high area then try it that way...he needs u the most now and thats what is good. dont worry if they dont let him out early the six months will pass really fast. stay faithful

Whether he did it or not, he is in jail. and i'm sorry that he, and you, are going through the seperation and what not. if you really want to wait for him to get out, then just try to keep busy with friends, and do the things that you like to do.

Was it your boyfriend who was in jail not that long ago? Same guy? I can't really remember, but I thought that it was you.

If this is the second time he's been in jail after such a short period of time, then I wouldn't waste your time. He's clearly getting into a bad pattern that you don't want to be involved in.

And I would get him to explain exactly why he was arrested again- there must be more of a reason than that.

"Whether it's absolutely true or not, your boyfriend is a criminal. Your 16 years old just get another boyfriend, he's in jail getting one right now, so why souldn't you do the same??"

That was way out of order and a horrible joke about prisons as well.
You don't just turn off love and are you trying to say everybody in prison is in gay.
Think before you shoot your mouth off with horrible comments like that.

His friends like to steal his medicine? Why?

First of all the police don't just arrest people for no reason, I'm sure they had some motive behind there justice. Second of all what kind of friends steal pills from another friend? It makes absoloutely no sense just like her story, but I'm sure it isn't her fault because she probably doesn't know the whole truth either. Thirdly and certainly not least, don't act like you know me and tell me to watch my mouth, what I said has nothing to do with you at all so leave it at that. She was the one who risked hearing the truth when she let us all into her life with her story, my opinion is my opinion if you don't like it thats your problem. How long has she been dating this guy anyway? let's get that out of the way.

I never said i didn't agree with her or did.
I agree with the people who are saying he must have done something, no one gets put into jail for nothing and something like this can be easily proved innocent if he was and he hasn't which makes me think he was involved in something illegal.

However, what i was saying, was i did not agree with what you implied about every man in prison turning gay for sexual purposes. It's not true and is a horrid steroetype.

Double post

Woah, triple post!

Very trippy! =P

I never said every guy in jail was gay haha this is completely useless, he obviously did something wrong and I honestly could care less I'm sorry to say. If he somehow is innocent then he's not the only person serving time that shouldn't be, what can we do when those with all the power, are hurting those with none? I mean I've seen it done, but the story just makes no sense thats all.

I agree with you on all those aspects, don't get me wrong. I think there's a lot of things she doesn't know about her boyfriend for something like this to happen

"Your 16 years old just get another boyfriend, he's in jail getting one right now, so why souldn't you do the same??"

Thats the only thing i didn't agree with, it sounded like you were making an out of order comment.
Peace out.

6 months with good behaivior= 2/3s of the time, which is 4 months. my boyfriend was in jail for something moronic that we THOUGHT had been taken care of years ago, but ah well. as for the medicine, yes, i know people who like to steal my meds too, and i take lithium which WONT get you high, so i hear, but i left a full pill bottle at my friends house who is a big pill head and i counted them, someone stole 4 or 5. if you really love him, stick by his side, but if you dont love him, its not worth it.

To the people saying that people don't get thrown in jail for no reason, if you EVER watch the montel show (which i hope you dont because that would mean you have no life like me lol) they had an ENTIRE special on people that were thrown in jail only to later be proven innocent.

i'm not saying i think this guy is innocent, nor do i know if he is guilty, but there are people that are thrown in jail all the time without having done anything. so just remember that.

and we aren't here to tell her if he boyfriend is innocent or not, she asked for help with dealing with the time that they are apart

=|

There is nothing she can do but decide: Will she stick around or will she fall distant? Does she believe their love can truley overcome this?

I think some people don't realize that in certain areas, police DO arrest people for very little or a crime that normally receives less time is given a VERY harsh punishment. Six months, although a decent chunk of time is not very long, and I mean that in no way to disrespect the struggle of knowing your boyfriend is in jail. My good friend just got sentenced to five years in prison :( (but he actually did do something pretty bad). Just hang in there and good luck.

Wasted fake smiles queen of spades and sinful touch thank you especially the some places police put ppl in jail for something they didnt do and stuff and i know wat happened because i was there when he got pulled over cause i was following him in my car just incase something happened and well now im here alone and hes in jail

'he's in jail getting one right now, so why souldn't you do the same??'

It's ok, Karl. I found that amusing. (:

I know how you feel, my boyfriend went to jail to but only he was guilty of his charges....it hurt alot but i waited it out....i was a mess but i stayed faithul to him and i waited for him.....although he was guilty i was on his side....but yeh anyway you'll be fine...6 months will fly by and if your loyal to him it wil be worth it when he gets out and yo get to see him.

It's illegal to carry pills on you without the bottle...

However, I DO believe that people go to jail for no reason. I've seen it be done. Twice at that.

Just keep your head up.. And do whatever you can to make the time pass by. It won't feel like 6 months when It's all over with.