Hes confusing me

  • xRenaissancex
    17 years ago

    We're over, we've been over for a while. and yet every once in awhile (complete randomness) he'll message me online or call me to either yell at me, make an @$$ out of me or mess w/ me to make me mad. i still like him. he made it seem like he hated me but if he hated me why would he waste his time yelling at me etc. he's rele confusing! help?

  • Freckles
    17 years ago

    No disrespect but he's a jerk. Why yell at you for no reason... Maybe he's not over you & still wants you but he's got a messed up way of showing it.
    thats what i think anyways=]

  • Choose xX Alex Xx Life
    16 years ago

    No I believe he's not over you at all. And because he wants to be, he's blaming you. The only reason he will phone you out of the blue is if he actually thinks about you. You HAVE to move on and change your number etc.. He definatly has problems and is trying to drag you down with him. Tell him to stop yelling or stop calling full stop. xxx alex xxx

  • Normal is the Watchword
    16 years ago

    No he's abusive. He doesn't want her back he wants to take things out on her. I you liked somebody you'd call them out of the blue and make them feel like a person not to yell and put them down.

  • Viola
    16 years ago

    And why would let him yell at you and harass you whenever he feels like it? Clearly you're not over it either. But I do hope you have some respect for yourself to tell him to just leave you alone. If he's only keeping contact with you to put you down and yell at you, it's not worth having him in your life at all. Make it clear that you are done. He's being quite immature.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Well he seems liike a jerk....but i mean then agian im goen thro the same thing....my ex does the same....and liike most of the time he makes me feel liike dirt but theres those moments when he dont and i love them!!!