How do I help him?

I dont know what to say to David (my bf/ bestfriend) As you all know his grandmother died, he is still dealing with it really hard. It's only been a month but his anger still hasn't 'loosened' up.

Now he has gone and got himself into over a £1000 debt, with only my income I feel it is my duty to help him with this. However I'm only working part time at the moment and struggleing really bad. His mother keeps demanding money of him, not stopping to think about the damage that is going on in his head.

He has also fallen out with one of his bestfriends now aswel, and I feel like he's pushing everyone including me away.

The other day he told me he wanted to die, wanted to kill himself, it was passively but I've been like a leach (understandably) ever since. I have been staying in his a whole lot more than I used to. Like every day probably. I just want him to be happy.

I wish I could just take the pain for him, I'm used to it so I'd be able to deal with it better. Twice in the past 2 weeks he has threatened to leave me. But when I get down to his all he wants is for me to hold him and cuddle him. I just wish I could make sense of it all. He wont tell whats eating at him the most. He seemed real angry last night telling me not to phone him. Then about an hour later he asked me if I wanted to come stay at his, (at 1 in the morning). I refused as my mum would go crazy but I cant help wanting to be there for him.

Any physcologists in the room?

I think he should go and talk to sum 1..maybe getting his feeling out is good!...have YOU ever tried sitting down and talken to him bout everything?

^^Ditto what Bob said.