It doesnt mean anything right?

Ok so well there's this fellow dude who was in my highschool and I didnt even care about him even though he hanged with some of my friends, I basically ignored him and he did the same. No prob there. Then, in college he STARTS TAlkiNG TO ME! ANd I'm like o...k whatever. But he kept doing it and calling me.

At first i just thought he just wanted to be my friend but then he BEGGED me to go out with him and after the third time I said fine even though I was tired. We played basketball and he kept groping me all over. NoOne has ever done that. EVER.(I won BTW)

The he begged me for a second date and I refused (I dont like him like that, I dont know, he just doesnt click on that level) He asked me again to see a movie that I reeally wanted to see coz the protagonist had my name and was a princess!! So I was like what the heck? And I accepted.

In the movie, he first took my leg and placed between his legs. Weird... and then I could swear i could feel his hand twirling a strand of my hair. My Hypothesis was corrected when he put his arm around me and started groping my shoulder. I was like IM NEVER GONNA GET TO ENJOY THIS MOVIE WITH HIM! But I kept my cool.

After the movie he kept trying to hold me down but I kept walking faster and everytime he held my hand, I tried to say something that would need my hand to release myself. Smooth...

MAybe he's just VERY friendly right?
It doesn't mean anything right?

You don't like him, but you keep going out with him and allow him to grope you? He is not going to get the message you dont like him because you are not giving it.

First of all if you don't like someone and you don't want them touching you, you don't allow it to go on, the more you allow the further it is going to go, until you are somewhere you don't want to be.

Hmmm... well i guest these person was right

If you don't like him in that way, why did you agree to a second date? it can't just be because of the reason you stated...You could have gone with friends or family...did you even tell him to stop touching you instead of keep coming out with excuses to let go of your hand? you could have just said "I don't mean to be offensive but i'm uncomfortale. could you let go and refrain from touching me please?" by not making your feelings clear and agreeing to see him again even though you're not comfortable with the way he acts will be giving him the wrong idea.

Tell him to back off. You're leading him on by allowing him to continue what he's doing, and by continuing to go on dates with him. If you're not interested, TELL him next time he calls you.

I hear ya but, I dont wanna say something that could be misinterpreted by my part. What if he doesnt like me and he's just veery friendly? Whne he was in the other school , he used to ALways be very friendly and touchy touchy with all the other girls.

Maybe it's just his way of getting through "the wall" he says is around me.
All of my friends say that Im very hard to get through.
I've been hugged like 10 times in my life and thats becoz they forced hugged me. I hav some self confident to built. And Im kind of flattered he takes the time to hang out with me and I dont want to make it awkward just beacause Im used to certain boundaries.

If he doesn't really like you, and he just wants to grope you, then you definitely don't even wanna get started down that path.

This has nothing to do with you having a wall; you don't like him, so stop going out with him. ESPECIALLY if you are uncomfortable with him touching you like he does.

Ok... this guy is getting very posessive. He called me for a third date and i told him I didnt want to go out with him and he told me that he doesnt care coz IM GOING!!
I'm like what the heck?
He insists on playing tennis with me AND he knows where I live.
He once told me he was right in front of my house and that I better get down so I had to pretend i was sick for him to go away.
I used my normal errands as excuses like three times already. He keeps calling about the tennis thing and i keep telling him I dont want to but he keeps saying the same darn thing.
He's beginning to get VERY annoying.

I want to change states and phones.

Uh no.
But iVe decided Im not the mean type and i cant stand being mean no matter to whom. IAnd Im not good ignoring ppl so if he ever asks me to be his girl, Ill just say no and see what happens coz he doesnt seem to get my settle hints. Ill just not let him touch me. Ill tell him to stop in a playful but dead serious way.