Im scared to death...

  • writersxblock
    16 years ago

    Its been 6 months. and i love him so much but im so scared that he just sees it as the lust. the words i love you dont mean as much but i still feel it. im so scared that he doesn't. iva talked to him and its all perfect but somehow i feel weird and i duno y. help!

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    Stop siking yourself out and enjoy what you have. You've talked to him, you say all is "perfect", so what is there to worry about?

  • TinyDancer46
    16 years ago

    ^I agree... you need to enjoy what you have.

    I spent my entire last relationship worrying about it ending... and when it did, I realized that I wasted so much time being afraid when really I should have just appreciated what I had.

    Please don't make the same mistake I did!

  • BrokenREALiTy
    16 years ago

    A guy doesn't stay with a girl for six months straight if it's just lust. Sometimes, after a long'ish while, the spark starts to die a little and one starts questioning when those three words just seem to be said too much. Just stop worrying about it. The more you overthink touchy subjects such as this, the more strife it'll cause. My fear was what always ended my relationships (not that I can say I ever really had a real one, but hey). The weird feeling and fear will die out.

    ..__MiNDYY

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    16 years ago

    As ^ said, "A guy doesn't stay with a girl for six months straight if it's just lust." i was with a guy that had just lust. he said that he loved me, and would try to do something with me, i'd reject, and he'd break up w/ me and then try again later. it never lasted more then 3 weeks.

    so 6 months is a long time. just enjoy what you have while you have it =]