Should i go out with him or not?

  • BreakMyWingsAndRun
    16 years ago

    I really like this guy at my school and he likes me too and he is really cute i like his personality and everything......except when he cusses.i am a really good christian (well i try to be at least) i told him i don't like it and he has got a lot better but i know he still cusses around his friends and stuff! what should i do? should i still give it a shot and keep on working with him on not cussing or what?

    Another reason i am not sure is because we are really great friends that can talk about anything, but if we break up i don't want it to be weird and we won't be able to talk like we did before. i have all but 2 classes with him!

    Please help!!

  • Tiffany
    16 years ago

    ^^I disagree. I know at least five 13 yr old guys who dont swear in front of friends.

    I think you should go out with him. Just go for it!

  • Jamie Lorraine
    16 years ago

    I read a quote on here saying if you want something go after it

    well.......... go for it. that it what it is about, it is all about the expierence

  • BreakMyWingsAndRun
    16 years ago

    What if we break up? i don't want it to be awkward between us because we are really good friends.

  • BreakMyWingsAndRun
    16 years ago

    Ok! thanks, but now i have another problem!
    i found out today that he has a girlfriend and i do have a boyfriend. but i don't think my b/f likes me all that much anyway.
    and if i break up with my b/f he will still have his g/f.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Well im not tryen to be ruid...but i mean if he cusses when ur not around then y shoudl u care....at least he stopped around u but i mean if ur not goen to date him cuz he cusses around his friends then thats just dumb!

  • BreakMyWingsAndRun
    16 years ago

    Ok i know some people see it as a dumb reason but i am really against cussing. i think if it weren't for his friend doing it around him he wouldn't do it. he goes to church and everything but still cusses.
    thank all of you for giving me your opinions and advice!! <3 ya!

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    I used to hate ppl that cussed and like everyone didnt do it around me becuase they respected me but i mean i nvr got mad if they did it when i wasnt around! i mean y should i?

  • BreakMyWingsAndRun
    16 years ago

    Good point Gloria. i just might give me and him a shot.......well i don't want to be a homewrecker, so i guess i will just have to wait. but i heard from one of my best friends that the guy i likes g/f was trying to get a hook up with him over myspace. i didn't want to say anything to him because i don't want to ruin their relationship. should i tell him?

  • BrokenREALiTy
    16 years ago

    Unless you see it all for yourself, don't say a word. You haven't seen it or heard it first hand; if she's doing that to your friend, it's between your friend, the guy you like, and his girlfriend -- not you. If you get involved, it'll just turn into some huge melodrama.

    And at least give the guy some props for cussing aroudn his friends and not YOU. I have cousins and some friends that are totally against cussing, but hey, that's how I am -- if they can't leave it alone, then fine.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    I dont think u should tell him. cuz that makes u look like ur tryen to break them up...he will find out from sum one else so dont worry bout it!

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    You know what, if he doesn't cuss around you, that's a good thing. That'll probably help him not cuss as much anymore. I've tried that with some a guy I used to date, and it did help. I think you should date him. Now, for the other reason, you do have a point about it. Being with one of your good friends might jeopardize the friendship, but you have to look on the bright side. What if you have a long relationship with him? That's what I thought when I started to date my friend. Now, we're getting married next year. I really hope this helped.

    *Cindy Lopez*