What do you think about this?

I have a good friend of mine. I have known her for 5 years. She was going out with her boyfriend for 8 months. A few days after their 8 months he broke up with her. Well about 3-5 days after he broke up with her she found someone new to go out with. i don't like him there is something about him that i don't like. Well after about 2 days of going out he tried say he got kicked out of his house and he lived there for 10 days. When i was in school with him he asked my friend for naked pics of her. Well he told her about it and she doesn't care at all. Well a week after they started going out they broke up because she said she wasn't over he ex. They still hang out all the time. He sleeps over there all the time. And i think they are doing things but she says no. I was talking to her and her friend lil the other day and she said they don't go out but they a re friends with benfits. I son't like it. I have told her that is hated it. I never hang out with her and when i talked to her was the first time in like 3 weeks. i don't know what to do i feel like i am losing my best friends or friends in general. Do you know what i should do.

While i am reading these i thought your a guy... that's why i look up 1st your profile... i know you love your bestfriend very much... talk to her... only conversation will help to give a road between you two... so that you can express the feelin' of each other... to show your concern... evrything on your heart... but be calm down while you saying these to her... talk to her...

Yes, i agree. And possibly get a few other people to talk to her as well...sometimes i find it helps if it comes from more than one person.

Wow that must be rele hard knoing that? do u maybe like her more than a friend?

My advice to you is sit down and have a good talk with her. Tell her that you feel you're loosing her. Tell her what you think about her "friend with benefits." Honestly, I think "friends with benefits" isn't real. What if her has fun with her and everything. Then, at the other time, he goes and tells his friends about it. That's gonna make her look bad and she's gonna pay for everything, not him. I'm not saying it's happening and everything, but it might be. Don't let go of her, it sucks to loose one of your best friends, and trust me, I know. Hope this helped.

*Cindy Lopez*

I think if anything she needs you right now because of the fact that she is confused and if the only person she can turn to is this guy who is just her "friend" then obvioulsy she might make some stupid choices so i say even though you dont like it you should suck it up and show her you care about whats going on but you need to remember this is her life and if this is the only way she can get over her ex then let her and if it turns out to be a mistake maybe the only way for her to learn is the hard way...

The thing that sucks is that they now go back out and i still don't talk to her. I have tried sitting down and talking to her it never worked. Nothing never works and i just feel like i could drop dead she won't care. and My friend is only a friend i am straight not bi.

O lol i didnt kno! if u were a girl or a boy srry i didnt look at ur profile!!!