I don't know what to...

  • Amanda Renee
    16 years ago

    Like I said in the Title I don't know what to do.....

    Well I have a major problem and that problem would have to be that my best friend is moving out and getting an apartment on his own and he wants me to move in with him. But there is one major problem and that would happen to be that .... he has a fiance' and he wants me to live with him because I'm the one who makes him happy and smile and everyone thinks we should date because we get along a lot better than him and her and I always take him home from school and things and I just told him today I can't move in with him because I'm inferring with his relationship and he said I'm not and he wants me to be with him and his fiance'... SO CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME THANKS IN ADVANCE

  • Viola
    16 years ago

    I think you're doing the right thing by staying out of their relationship.

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    ^^Ditto

    Moving in with one another sounds like trouble from what you've said here.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    16 years ago

    "because I'm the one who makes him happy and smile"

    Well if he's marrying the woman, shouldn't she make him happy and smile, too? I mean, hello: that's what would make sense, right? You are right, though . And you're responsible for not wanting to interfere. Just keep the living arrangements the same right now -- aka, you not living with him .

    ..__MiNDYY

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Ummm i thinks thats rather odd that he wants u to live with him and his fiance'....dont u think....i think he liikes u but unless him and his fiance' brake up i think u should do wat ur doen and not move in!

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    You're doing the right thing. It's good that you're thinking about their relationship. It's best that you let him be with his fiance and that's it. Hope my words helped out.

    *Cindy Lopez*

  • Monica AKA Mika
    16 years ago

    Honestly if he has a finance and yet your the one who makes him happy he needs to think about what he is doing with her because if you make him happier then she does then i think there is a problem...I think you are doing the right thing also but i need to ask you...how do you feel about him i mean if she wasnt in the picture would you WANT to move in with him also?

  • Amanda Renee
    16 years ago

    To tell you the truth to your question I don't know I'm only 17 and I'm still in school and I want to accomplish all my goals and finish school and get into college. I'm good friends with him but I don't want to interfer and thats why I'm not moving in with him and her and plus me and her are good friends. So I don't want to ruin our friendship and the other thing is I"M THE ONLY ONE IN THAT HOUSE THAT WOULD HAVE A JOB AND WOULD BE THE ONLY ONE PAYING THE BILLS WITH NO HELP SEE MY POINT. So I'm not moving in with them and thats my point.. :)