Why is it that...

When a best friend of yours gets a boyfriend, you never talked to them. I have 2 really great friends of mine. The one got a boyfriend in feb. 16 2007 and i haven't talked to her since. the other one got a boyfriend on Dec 9 2007 and I haven't talked to her since. I feel like i have lost both of the people i truely care about. The only person i hang out with is my boyfriend but i only see him on weekends, if that. It feels like i can drop dead off the face of the earth and my friends wouldn't care about me at all. I don't know what to do anymore. I tried talking to them. I tired doing all of that and nothing works. What can i do guys. Can someone please help me.

Just keeping trying and it should all work out in the end i have problems with my friends to but i just keep apologizing and it finally works out.. and your friends would miss you if you dropped dead and they would seriously feel really bad

I have tried everything and nothing is working. and now my boyfriend said that when we get married he doesn't want my one friends boyfriend there and i said that he would come no matter what and yea i don't know what to do. everthing i do gives me headaches anymore. and do you know people get headaches alot?

First of all, I wouldn't worry about your wedding at your age.

And people tend to forget about their friends when they get caught up in a new relationship. It's not right, but it happens. Make plans with them, call them, and when they have a problem help them. They will come back in time, and you shouldn't hold it against them. Common mistake on their part.

It seems to be a very common thing its happened to me with several so called friends... i believe that if they do this too you especially over a long period of time then they aren't the friend you thought they were least that was the case with my experience, first month or so maybe coz his new in their life but i believe friends should always have time for eachother, i treat mine equally if anything more importantly as friends can be for life so can bfs but i think friendships are more necessary to get through life