She doens't see what he's doing

My aunt is engaged to a guy named Tim. Well lets just say they've been together for 6 or 7 years. Tim has put my aunt in Bankruptcy, h___ and everything else.

Well I want my aunt to FINALLY realize the guy she is ENGAGED to, is doing her wrong. He's tried moving in on me and it's just wrong. He's sick in the head, a 36 year old guy trying to get with a 15 year old girl. ITS SICK! And my aunt is too dumb to realize that HES NOT RIGHT FOR HER. He's doing her two kids WRONG by not even buying them a SIMPLE Christmas Gift nor a birthday gift. My aunt always has to do it because apparently 'hes got no money'. He JUST bought an automatic truck starter so he can turn it on when his truck is like 10 steps to the darn house! My family is HOPING she'll see he's doing her wrong. We want her to see it SOON, not later.

I don't know what to do!

I agree with talk to her...but maybe get someone a little older than yourself to talk to her...I'm not saying that you shouldn't talk to her I'm just saying maybe she'll listen to someone a little older than you because maybe she's thinking that you are too young to know what you're talking about (even though you don't seem like you are) or you could write her a list of all the bad things he has done so she can see what she is getting herself into... maybe she just doesn't realize...Sometimes love does strange things to people.

Yaaas he sounds liike a CREEP!!! has ne one in ur family talked to her bout how hes creepy and a money stealer?

Talk to her. That is the only way to make her see

You just have to talk to her

If Your Religious I Suggest You Do Some Praying And Just Be Patient, If Not Just Express Your Concerns, If She Doesn't Listen Don't Force Her Or Loose Sleep Because Of It, Its Sweet Your Worried And You Care This Much But Sometimes You Have To Be Hurt To Realize Somethings Not Good For You (Especially If Your Stubborn)

Honestly, telling her may not work. If he's done thsi much to her, she's obviously way behind the rest of you. And, talking wouldn't make her realize it - or she would have already. I'm suer someone has said something.

She'll realize it one day. If it's too late then, I'm sorry but that'll be her fault. She'll come to realization with or without your help sooner or later. And, if she doesn't then when he dies, she'll be in big trouble with debt and such.

Somehow she'll learn her lesson as will he.

And,
Talking may do you good, depending on the type of person she is. But, if she's ... gullible.. enough to have this be taken to this level, then she's gullible enough to keep believing him. And, ignoring those who don't like the guy she loves.