Is my neighbor insane?

My next door neighbor was shoveling her sidewalk and she was throwing the snow on my sidewalk...later in the day when my b/f came over to help us finish shovelng my neighbor was watching us shovel and when my b/f acidently hit her car with a few drops of snow she yelled at him and told him never to do that again...my b/f told her to shut up...then she kept spying on us while we finished shoveling and after we were done shoveling I heard her talking to my mother (who is partially deaf and didn't hear her) she was saying that my mother should stop comming over to her house and sleeping with her husband when she was not home...(She was lying about that though) and then she told my mother that she had pictures (but how could she, she said it happened when she asn't home) then she said that she was going to go to my father's work (she knows where he works) and tell him and show him the pictures...(my parents are divorced) so why would my father care...me and my b/f wanted so bad to hit the lady on the head with our shovels but we didn't...(we know better)...We were just mad thats she was making up suck bad, hurtful lies. What do yuo think we should do?

Yeah I hope so...but I dunno...

^your the same age as me and I was thinking of something even more insane...U'kno...hitting her over the head with one of my shovels...lol...I think it would be pretty funny actually...although I may have to worry about her after she regains conciousness...lol

I agree with Mandy.
And, if she doesn't there are further measures you can take - though they're extreme. Lol.
You could always call the police, that'll shut the women up. Just have 'em give her a scare, that's all.
If you stay off her property you shouldn't have a thing to worry about. (:

Even when we stay on our property she is always looking out her windows spying on us...It almost makes me wish my mother would move...and I really don't like that thought since I've lived in the same house since I was born...but she makes us really nervous because she's so mean and creepy.

I also had a crazy neighbour- about 10 years ago she took my parents to court for building a chainlink fence between the property lines. So I can relate to you, unfortunately lol.

Anyways, I would shower her with kindness. Your boyfriend shouldn't have told her to shut up, he should have said something about being incredibly sorry. When you see her spying on you, smile and wave. Trust me, you'll bug her. When she's going on about your mom sleeping with her husband, laugh and say "good one" like she's telling a joke.

Just a thought.

I know my b/f shouldn't have told he to shut up...but it's too late now...and those are good suggestions...I'll try them...but I think the best thing for me to do is to just stay away from her as much as I can.

I agree w/Mandy, best option is to move, at least neighborhoods

My mother can't afford to move...but I wish...

Spray paint all her windows black and cut her electricity, she will never know what time it is and wont leave the house.... lol j/k dont do that!! but i agree just shower her with kindess. wave when she is stairing and smile at her, she will eventually get bored with u and move on

^JESS^

I hope so^...I mean she had a kind of dislike for my family for a long time (says her husband who is friendly with my family)...But latey she'sust gotten out of control...But I'll do my best to be nice to her and just hope she gets bored and goes away.