What should i do???

Yesterday, my friend did show up for school. which is becoming very normal for her. But i recieved a text message from her saying "Hey, im not sick today. I just couldn't come to school for reasons that i need to talk to the ones who care about me about." and i texted her back asking what was wrong and she said "You won't understand unless you're in my position" so then i stopped to think about her. She 'had' been acting really different lately. Like tired, always looked like she'd been crying. *she recently told me that she'd get these feelings where she would just want to curl up in a ball and cr for no reason... * We also had to do a talk in one of our school classes. she did hers on depression. * am i just parinoid.. or is this a sign???* But then yesterday we went out of town for cheerleading and she was her same old self again. except for the way home she started acting weird again and saying that her stress level is about to blow, so just leave her alone. And she will not tell us what is going on. i asked her why? and she said because she it will make her cry, really hard. I know that i should be patient, but what if this is something really super seious and could hurt her if she doesn't get help or i dont help her soon. Doesn't anyone else go through this? and if so, 'what' is it? anything will help.. im just so worried about her right now

" just couldn't come to school for reasons that i need to talk to the ones who care about me about."

I assume this meant her family, in which case I would assume they are the ones helping her. She will come to you in her own time, she just does not sound ready to share right now. Don't push too hard.

No.. she ment her friends. She's been telling us that she needs to get us all alone so that she can talk to us about it. but its like eh's putting it off or doesn't want anyone to know her secret. I don't think that her family knows yet.

Maybe she has bi polar =/

I agree... its really starting to bug me. I hate to see her like this, because i care about her so much, but she should know that she can trust her friends. And if this is hurting her so much, don't you think that it would be easier for her to get this out. i don't know.. i guess im just so confused right now. I love her to death, but i feel like she feels like *wow.. chick talk.. lol* she can't trust me, and that hurts the most.

So answer the question brought up earlier.. no... i don't think that she is bipolar.. not in the least bit, because she just started acting like this....

Either this girl is putting on a front when you went out, or something is happenin to her at home.... you must find out hun what is it and save her. Maybe it will get tough and real hard and you will feel like giving up but if you lvoe the girl fight for her. Personally i have the feeling of Anorexia coming to mind, take her out for a meal and see...

I think that her family will have already noticed something and are probably trying to help her. i think in your position, you just need to be supportive and tell her that you're there for her when she wants to talk.

Hmm i dont kno maybe u should talk to her parents bout it!