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  • Samantha
    16 years ago

    So i really like thid one guy and he's incredible shy and sweet but theres a problem
    his best friend is an ex of mine and this ex just told me he likes me again
    I told him that it would never work becasue of some other drama that i don't want to get into right now.
    My ex dosen't know i like his best friend
    so what do i do
    please help me out

  • DeathsRose
    16 years ago

    Just ask his friend out...If you don't want to date your ex again then don't. If your ex really did still like you then he would want you happy, and if trying to go out with his friend makes you happy he should have no problem with it.

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    16 years ago

    Lols hello again =) Anyway, to the issue at hand. K, the way I look at it is that he's your ex for a reason so he should be out of the picture as to you worrying about what he'll think or how he'll handle it. I've found that once you breakup it's not normally a good idea to go back out with him *not in all cases, just most* because chances are the same thing will happen just normally worse. If you like this friend then go for it and don't worry about your ex.

  • Gem
    16 years ago

    What does it have to do with your ex if you date someone else?

    He has his shot and blew it, he needs to move on like you are trying to do

    Forget him and look after yourself.

  • Samantha
    16 years ago

    Yea usually it wouldn't matter at all its just that this guy is not above bad-mouthing me to the guy i actually like

  • Gem
    16 years ago

    Then he's an immature boy who really needs to grow up.
    Get the guy you like on his own and tell him how you feel and maybe warn him about his friend

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    16 years ago

    K, Been there done that one =P My last ex did everything he could to make all my friends hate em and tried turning the whole small town we live against me as well as any guy that he thought would be interested, it's not fun I know. Only highly immature boys act like this and really, if they know you or really like you they'll ask you about what he says. But just get this boy alone and talk to him about how you feel and tell him that if theres anything he hears that bothers him to ask you about it and you'll explain it. I did that with my guy friends and people and it worked out the best.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Well if ur ex rele cares for u he would be happy knoing ur happy even if its not with him....