I Don't Know If My Boyfriends Cheating

My bf has this friend Christina and i'm not the insecure tpye, so i didn't care. You know but then she started sending him half naked pics and calling him baby talking about she was wifey and it made me mad. So i confronted him and he acted like nothing was going on, so i dropped the subject didn't bring it up anymore. But then she somehow got my number and started calling and it turned into one big ball of drama. I love my bf and i know she could just be some girl thats trying to get at him but i have this weird feeling like he's not telling the truth and it's really bothering me. Am i suppose to just ignore it or should i do something about it?

Well first of all girl let me say that trust and honesty are the two of the main bases in a relationship so you should trust him and if you find out he aint being honest with you then you find out but dont try and found out and look for him to get caught up...if he is cheating then you will find out when your suppose to find out but for now it is what it is and you wit him not her!

My bf would never allow one of his friends to treat me that way if it was not true, so unfortunately it sounds as though you have a reason to worry.

Well yes u should trust ur br but i mean if thats happened alot...i mean i think u have reaason to find out!

Before you do anything drastic like hire a detective (exagerated, coz i've watched too much TV) or anything, sit back and think abt it. Do you trust your boyfriend enough to say that there is no way he would cheat on you? If the answer is no, then maybe he isnt worth your time anyway...its a lil harsh, but unless ur completely trusting of your partner, then there's no point.

I think this is one of those situations where sitting wondering about it is doing nobody any good.

You need to sit down with your boyfriend and tell him how this girl is making you feel uncomfortable. Stress how much you do trust him but this is really getting you down now what with the pictures she's sending and how flirty she's being.
Let him know you love him but this girl is making you miserable.
If he loves you he will see how much this is hurting you and do the right thing by telling this girl to back off, if he doesn't, i'm sorry sweets but he's not worth your worry. You could do better.

If all else fails, you could speak to the girl yourself and tell her you're not appreciating her behaviour.

Good luck
*Gem*