Love stuck...?

  • Parisa
    16 years ago

    Ok well heres my problem:
    i hv a boyfriend but i dont like him tht much cuz i like this other guy..i dont know how to tell my bf tht i dont like him but still wana b friendz cuz if i just say "i wana break up" hed get mad and upset..so i hv no clue wat to do..some advice anyone?

  • Parisa
    16 years ago

    Oh wow i never thought of tht before..maybe ur rite. i'll just wait and see wat happens cuz theres no point in goin out with someone u dont even like rite? thxx alot.

  • Gem
    16 years ago

    I agree with Brit.

    Don't string him along for a start. What if it was you and the guy you were with didn't like you but liked someone else.
    It would devestate you. I'm sure you care enough to put him out of his misery or else why did you go out with him in the first place.

  • Parisa
    16 years ago

    Oh ok so i should just wait after a while and then go out wit someone..tht makes sense cuz then he wont think im leavin him for another guy..thanks

  • Parisa
    16 years ago

    O yeah gem i never thought of tht..tht actually would be upsetting..i should have thought about it before i went out with him

  • Gem
    16 years ago

    I think at one point you did like which is why you went out with him, all i'm saying is feelings change which is understandable but the longer you put it off the more into you he's going to get and the more hurt he's going to be.
    Do it as soon as you can so he can start getting over it.

  • Parisa
    16 years ago

    Yea your so rite..thx alot for ur advice =]

  • Gem
    16 years ago

    No problem

    Good luck. I know it's hard to break up with someone. I had to do it a few years back when i was in love with someone else and it broke his heart, but it's kinder than giving them false hope.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Umm u need to break up with him its worse to keep goen with sumthen thats not there! if he rele cares bout u he would be happy with at least being ur friend!