What should I do

I just broke up with my boyfriend who i was with for 8 months. he cheated on me with some girl and now he wants me back, but i still have feelings for one of his friends, who i knew before i knew him. but his friend has a really bad reputation with girls. he is known as a player and he likes me and tells everyone that im special cuz im the only girl who wont give it up to him. and i have tried all i can to get him to see that i wont hurt him like his last girlfriend did. but he wont get it. so right now all im doing is waiting. Should i keep waiting. or should i keep trying. cuz im not the only girl calling him or should i just get back with my ex?

I see what you mean. well ive already began something with him. its funny. aq year ago when i first met him. i didnt want nothing to do with him, but he kept showing around me ,and months later i started to get to know him and now im hooked. all my friends hate him and so does my family.i just like him alot

"all my friends hate him and so does my family.i just like him alot."

haaaaaa. That doesn't bother you at all? Your friends and family are the ones who know you best - if they hate him, maybe there's something you're not seeing. Sure, if he's really a good person, and they just don't see it yet, give him time to prove himself. But let him do that, -before- you "start something" with him. Fast forward a couple of months... you could so easily be looking back on this, going "Dang it, why was I so stupid? I knew he was bad for me, and everyone else knew it too!"

Just use caution.

He is a good person like he a great guy an the weird thing is is that he's not the top of guy that i would ever want. but for some reason i want him. just yesterday i gave him a christmas gift and he loves it. like last year i bought him this real expensive hat with his name on the back and to this day he still wears it. like he wont take it off for nothing. and he tells me that he would ask me out but we dont see eachother enough. cuz i use to go to the same school last year now i go to a different school, and the night we were suppose to hangout he got kicked out of the house that he was living with and now he lives with his dad and stpmom and they got him on lokc down like crazy. he canr even come to my church, but i might trying giving it alittle more time

Why do your friends and famly hate him?

Because when i first met him he would talk dirty to me and try to get me to give it up and now he has realized that he aint gettin it, and my family thinks i should want something better. my friends dont really know him. they just know what they heard about him..

"talk his lead what does that mean"

"take his lead" = follow his example

Yeah

Thankyou to all that have answered you really have helped me and i think i know what to do