My Cousin

Recently I found out that my cousin (a person I was pretty close to) was doing drugs and being hurtful to those around her. I didn't really know what to expect but now I'm staying with her for a week and a day. When I first got to her house she was acting like she was just barely putting up with me and her parents and my mom. Then after dinner she showed me how to get on the computer and then left for a party with friends. It was really hurtful becuase she basically ignored me when I kinda wanted to talk to her. I tried several times to start a converstaion but it appeared obvious that she didn't really want to have anything to do with anybody. It wasn't just me. I know I shouldn't take it personally but I do in a way. I really love her becuase she is a part of my family and I really want to help her. But I have no idea how to. Can anyone help me?

Well as soon as you get the chance just talk to her. Tell her everything that you told us. Tell her that you love her, and if she has an problems that you can help. Tell her that although she may not have intended to ignore you, her placing you in front of the computer made you feel neglected.

Just make sure you approach the conversation the right way, don't automatically acuse her of doing drugs, because that could put her off right a way and she may not want to speak to you.

Good Luck and have a Happy New Year regardless!

Drugs can make a person mean and sadly there is not much any of us can do about it because the one with the problem is the only on who can fix it. Let her know how you feel and tell her anytime she just needs someone to talk to, you will be there.