To much

This hurts so bad. First i trust my ex with everything told him my life, told him i was depressed an hurt myself.. An then when we brake up 5months later.. He goes around telling people i cut an saying sexual stuff about me..
Calling me fat an ugly!!!

This hurts me so bad an cuts my heart real deep

I know a guy like this isnt worth my tears, but i just want this pain to go away,

Wwe were together 5months broke up bout 3months ago...

Help me please

This is why the young and love dont go hand in hand most of the times. Both guys and girls do this kinda stuff, and it means they arent over the relationship because they have to keep crap going if you catch my drift. He aint worth your tears or thoughts, and you simply need to get over it and move on and ignore the childish crap he does, the more you acknowledge it the more he'll do it. And big whoop if he s ays your fat? even if you are, be proud of who you are. Pieces.

Thanks, so true.

I cant believe hes acting like this when hes turning 19 in 3 days...

Its not that easy to get over thought. every time im nearly over him he just goes an does something like having sex with my friend an now there going out...

Its not a friend its my ex boyfriend.

That's horrible! What he's doing is so messed up. And I'm sorry. :[ I've -sorta- been through this. [For me, it just didn't last as long] And I know that it hurts. He's just an a-- hole. I know a lot of guys like that. [I dated enough of them] And him, calling you fat and ugly, that's messed up too. He's just insecure about himself and wants to feel dominate, when, in reality, he's just. .an idiot.

^^ the that comment about loosing weight,, Ummm why would i want a guy like that back.. An I dont need to loose weight im not even fat hes jus saying that, I dont know what world your living in but i aint changing for that a-hole..

To the other comments.. It makes me scared 2 date another guy.. There all the same my ex turned 19today, He needs to grow up.

^ High five, honey. That's the right attitude. And I definitely agree: He may not be an adult, but shoot, can a guy show some class? Not all guys are like that; trust me, I'm friends with almost every guy I've ever met. They definitely have more respect than that. (If you subtract the immature ones; them being the reason for the "almost" every guy.)

Not all guys are like that. If those are the only guys you seem to find the the problem is most likely you. I used to do that in my younger years, group all guys together and then I realized I do the picking so maybe my view needs to change, I went for someone who was not what I usually looked for and we have had rough spots like everyone but we have been together almost 10 years now, it just takes time and realizing and changing the mistakes you make. Like everything in life it is a process lol

Yes i broke up with him.

I dont really have that much guys mates a few but its just after my ex i tried to kinda get over him a bit an went out with thisd guy buit he just cheated on me anyways.

Im just kinda over love. But i guess its not fair for me to judge them all an say there all the same.

But how can i be carful to not date the wrong guys
an how can i not let my ex hurt me??
When hes trying so hard

Just try not to think about it too much. Surround yourself with the kind of people who suppot you and go have some fun! :)

^^^Agreed. maybe just chill and relax for a bit. you sound a bit stressed.

You probably should not have told him any of that information. not matter if he is your boyfriend. deep thoughts like that, some guys will take it out of context when you break up. you set yourself up for that one. now you got to turn it around. say something about him. or show people that your not like that

I guess theres nothing more to say.

Cause theres no cure to betrayle or a broken heart

Talking like that sure wont cure it either bucko.

Welll how am i ment to talk??
Im hurt an theres nothing i can do about it!!