I love you?

When do you think it's too early to say I love You?

I don't think it's too early to say I love you in any relationship. It takes some people longer then others to really feel what they feel inside. Some people are just more prone to know what the truly feel inside.

What is your opinions?

You shouldn't say it until you feel it. i've had guys tell me they are in love with me before we are even going out...or my favorite was this one guy asking me to marry him and then a week later breaking up with me. haha. anyway, sorry got off topic.

i just think that you have to be sure that you are feeling the love and not just saying it to say it. if you feel it early on, and it isnt just the feeling of loving having a boyfriend/girlfriend, not necessarily having him/her, then that's fine..but be sure.

that's just my thoughts on it tho

I can feel it. This is the second boyfriend I told that I loved. He said he loves me too.

I can feel that this is different. I don't feel the need to ask myself if I truly do love him or not. I don't have to ask myself that, I just know that I do love him.

Ive only said i love you to ONE person and i acually ment it...im 14 and im in love!!!.............and i dont think its ever to early u kno when ur ACUALLY in love and i think thats the time to tell that person!

Just make sure that when you say "I love you" you actually mean it

When you dont mean it? Pieces.

I think you should say it when you feel it. On the other hand, to really love someone you need to really -know- them. That's where people tend to get confused, particularly teenagers.

It's not necessary to tell someone you love them just because you're dating them. It's pretty much a generally well-known fact that young people throw the L word around way more than they mean it.

^-^ i say most of the time ever since i was 11, but not meaning it as actually love but more in a friends way... Its just some thing im used to doing... =]

Everyone says 'say it when you mean it' but then there 13 year olds come on here and tell us all there in love, and everyone basically tells them theyre not. so lets pick something, k?

Its too early when its only been a couple months. my ex told me he loved me after couple months of going out. But I didnt say it back. I told him that I dont love, but I like him alot. and that I will not say I love you unless I really mean it. I said I loves after the relationship was about 7 months...

It doesn't matter when you say it, it is whether you mean it, if you don't they're just empty words.

The guy i'm with now is my third b/f. my first was a jerk to say the least. my second i know for a fact that i was in love with him. i tell my b/f that i love him, and he says it to. but i think its true. my love eachother but we are no where here being "in love" i was with my second b/f for 4 years be4 i knew that.

tohavesomeoneloveyou

But how do you know if you are actually in love none of that puppy love or high school romance?

Some people don't. That's the problem with the "Say it when you mean it." Some poeple mistake puppy crushes for more, but hey, it's their mistake. They'll get over it. It happens; it's not the end of the world.
Not that I would really know; if I even attempt to say "I love you" to someone, the words get stuck and won't come out, so I don't have to worry about when's the right time (: It's weird, but pretty darn beneficial in my life.

I think you can say I love you in any relationship. I dont' think there should be an age limit to when you cant say it or when you can start saying it. We are all entitled to our opinion on who we love. Just bevuase we are young doesn't mean we shouldn't be able to say that.

A lot of people say it without realising the true extent but say it in the heat of the moment because, well in that moment, they truly believe they love that person.

Take me for example, Me and Marcus had been going out four days when he told me he loved me and i told him the next day that i loved him too.

Alot of people sneered at us, calling it puppy love, calling it a crush.
Two years and an engagement later. Still in love, except this time we both understand the true meaning.

In conclusion (wow, feels like back in english class all over again, lol) i believe that there is no right time to say 'i love you' in a relationship but only time will tell if the love is real.

*Gem*

Thank you Gem.

It's now a month and two days with me and my boyfriend Adam.

And we've been saying I love you since we started going out.

Do you acualy mean it?

^ At the time of saying it, yes people 'actually mean it', it's time that tells if the love is true, not people saying it so does it matter if people feel enough to say it.
I think thats a no.

You're welcome btw =) Hope things work out for you two.

Yes I do mean it.
With my whole heart I do.

Thanks Gem!

I believe love is more based on that underlying bond of friendship's love first and then builds into that deep love. I've loved my best friend Sean for years but it wasn't until after my broken relationship/engagement of 2.5 yrs and that I realized he was always there for me and I was there for him at an instant that we realized we were something more. we've been best mates for 5 years yet never said what's completely obvious. Meanwhile I wasted all that time telling a boy "I love you" when the reality was it wasn't pure.

I guess what I'm saying is that before you really jump into saying "Oh I'm so in love with you" etc you should build your relationship on the basic forms of love otherwise it can get a bit messy if it turns out not to be the right love.

Amanda is right.

I think that you can feel that you love someone, but later on, you can look back on it and realise it was indeed just infatuation. Young people say I Love You early because they, being young, feel that they love them. It's not wrong, it's just how they feel. I do think that it is wrong to tell them that they don't love them though, because it's their own feelings, not yours, or yours to judge. Only a person themself can know how they truely feel. Just my opinion. :]

Say when you mean it and you feel that you love him/her, then its not early, but if you don't mean it. . . then don't say it, it's early - my opinion

You say I love you when you really mean it...
I know i have only told I love you to 2 guys.... I know what i feel...

you will know when its love... it hits you!!!

I dunno

There is no "too early" you could fall in love the first day or after 5 years it just depends on the person your with... right now im in love i fell in love with her after hanging out with her for only 10 month... sooo theres my opinion.

When you dont mean it of course
never say it if u dont mean it

xx