Is this love ..mayb sound stupid but please help

  • El
    16 years ago

    OK well this may sound stupid but hey! Im a girl 2 years ago i made friends with a girl and we became best mates really quickly. I liked her so much. When she talked 2 me i felt alive. In 2007 in july we stopped being friends and i was devasted. Its been 4 months and I still cry about her. I think about her more then the boy im going out with and i really like him. I think i love her. I cant do anything about it because she wont talk 2 me. this has been playin on my mind. I dont know what to do. Is this love or were we just gd friends. Wat can i do? Please help

  • BeatsMe
    16 years ago

    Sh** happens. Lmao. But seriously, why arent you two friends anymore in the first place? And do you think she possibly has the same feelings for you?

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    Friends are like family, you can love her, it doesn't mean you're "in love" with her, losing a friendship can be so much worse than losing a bf or gf.

  • Tiffany
    16 years ago

    ^^ Agreed.

  • El
    16 years ago

    How am I supposed to get over her?
    I cant keep crying every night tearing myself up inside coz i miss her

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    I can't really comment any further without knowing how the situation came about.

  • El
    16 years ago

    Wat dya mean? dya mean y were not friends?

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    Well I noticed in your other thread you said you know it was your fault that you are no longer friends, so I imagine you also have guilt, which only makes matters worse for you emotionally.

  • Kelsie
    16 years ago

    Maybe you just miss the companionship that you two shared with each other. if you really think you love her nobody else can tell you of it. you need to think about it. i know its tough.