How do you get over the ex

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    How do you get over the ex that you broke up with?i

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    The thing is that i broke up with him and i had a reason to but i ill think about him when i dont even want i try to most of the time i can but its taking me a while to get over him and i called him some since we broke i blocked my # though i left a voice mail like once i told him we could still be friends and he was cool with it but i dont want to tell my friends or family this cause they woulnt understand and to top it he was in the navy a=so it was long distance and he was still talking to ex fieoncia i prob'ly spelled that wrong and so much more i just need help getting over it

  • Helen
    16 years ago

    My last boy friend was one of my friends and when we broke up at first i was evil to him in every way, but after that he said he was very sorry and we are good friends now, and we just laugh at the past... we understand each other a little better to now.

    i wouldnt know what to say other then that because i have only been out with one guy and i have given up on dating for a while ^_^ so im a bit usless on this subject

  • my name is Llama
    16 years ago

    Just keep on reminding yourself of the reason you broke up with him in the first place.

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    I do keep reminding myself of why i broke up with him and i know i dont want him but sometimes i cant help but to think about what it would be like if we were still together or if he really did love i lnow i didnt love him i thought i did it was just one of those caught up in the moment kinda things ya know so yeah pluse he had the nerve to tell me he looks at porn and that he almost cheated on me and would call and hardly talk to me i had to do most of the calling and he would hang up the phone while it was ringing i know since hes in the navy he cant talk all the time but but hes not well is now but wasnt when this was going on so he shoulve returned my calls but the dushe didnt i deserve much better

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    Thanks , it is hard the thing is i dont want him but part of me does i guess cause we were together for a while even though it was long distance w/ him in the navy and everything but yeah i do want to move on more than anything =)

  • I Want To Forget But All I Do Is Remember
    16 years ago

    You can never really get over an ex. they will always be a part of who you are...but what you can do is move on...that's what i do and you find in time that a part of you is over him...

    REVS

  • Gem
    16 years ago

    Ice Cream, a good movie and your friends.

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    Thanks y'all ive tried to stop thinking about him but sometimes i just cant help it and i dont want to think of him anymore

  • pebbles 89
    16 years ago

    I know what you mean i just broke up with my boyfriend and we was friends at first and i treat him like stuff and i call him so many names but he still wants my friendship but i don't want to give it to him i still want him how do i get over it

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    Awesome thanks for the help y'all 8)

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    YES u can get over an ex
    just remember if he was so awesome ud still b together.
    find someone else.

    gd luck

    xx

  • Babydoll
    16 years ago

    It's possible, but it takes time,don't move on toooo quick, that would be worst thing to do,alot of crying it all out,movies(not romantic),and your friends.
    GOOD LUCK

  • JAZMIN
    16 years ago

    I still cant get over my ex....and he broke up with me.... :(
    i cant stop talking to him because all of our friends...we have in common... i miss him...

  • Kelsie
    16 years ago

    For me the past relationship was easy to get over because he treated me so badly once i broke up with him, he talked shit about me and my family and basically everything/everyone i cared for. i told him he never loved me because how could he treat me that way if he did.

    he made me feel like shit.
    u dont deserve someone in ur life holding u down or making u sad. life needs to be just about u doing ur own thing sometimes.

    think of all the positive energy and vibes coming ur way now that u have opened a new chapter of your life.

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    It depends on if you really loved him. If you did then you never really get over that someone. You jsut have to deal with it and try to move on. It may take a while but hopfully it will get better.

  • Jojalicious
    16 years ago

    What i did when i wanted to get over my ex (yes, it is possible for us guys to fall in love) I just kept on telling myself that i was over her, for a couple of weeks and yeah, i found that that really helped me...before i did that i was still hung up on her, i couldnt stop thinking about her...but yeah XD

  • The Queen
    16 years ago

    Dont answer his calls or messages..avoid familiar places..hang out wit a lot of people or wit ur true friends...do some sports..watch movies and meet new people...

  • Haleigh
    16 years ago

    Its going to be very difficult but if they did something wrong enough for you to break up with them for just keep telling yourself you deserve better, get some new friends, try something that doesnt remind you of your life with him, theres alot of things you can do but if u think you can be just friends thats where you will get sucked back in .. cut your losses and move on

  • Babydoll
    16 years ago

    Friends,funny movies,icecream,and a pillow 2 cry on.good luck.

  • Freedom
    16 years ago

    Time will solve everything,be sure :)

  • BeatsMe
    16 years ago

    One night stand. Youll never really forget your ex's, but youll get over them in time, or because of getting in another relationship. Nothing like a rebound relationship lmao. Pieces.

  • Ashton
    16 years ago

    Just give yourself some time to adjust, and you'll get through it.

  • Shotput Girl
    16 years ago

    Find something to do with ur friends. in time u will forget him cause ur having fun with them. boyfriends come and go but ur friends will always be there for u.