Does he like me or is he just being nice

  • Samantha
    16 years ago

    My friend has a problem with a guy and since she won't take my advice. Please help...

    I really like this guy and i'm pretty sure he likes me back. We were in a play together and now the play is over. We had a couple of "moments" during the play that were interrupted by a friend and now that the play is over I don't know what to do. I still see him ever once in awhile but I don't know what to do or say. I don't want to force and then have it be akward but I just don't know what to do.
    Help please?

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    You don't hasve to force anything, ask him if he wants to hang out, find out if you have any other shared interests, you never know unless you try.

  • Samantha
    16 years ago

    Yea that makes sense but i have this problem where I have troble talking to people that I don't know really well

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    You were in a play together, so you atleast have an opening, "Hey how's it going? I haven't really seen you since we finished the play." All it takes is one question, word, sentence, whatever to get the conversation going. I hear you on the shy spectrum, I was that way myself once, but why spend even more time wondering what if? Just take a chance and find out, atleast if there's nothing there you won't have to wonder any longer and it was good practice for the next time.

  • Samantha
    16 years ago

    I just don't know if I can deal with denial

  • Tiffany
    16 years ago

    Denial? dont you mean "rejection"?

    anyway, i think you should just go for it. "Shoot for the stars", i suppose :D

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    Yeah gd luck. just talk to him and whats hes doing since the plays been over and maybe work into it a date!

    gd luck

    xx

  • Shotput Girl
    16 years ago

    You never know what might happen if you just hang out with that person. Just ask and see what happens from there.

  • Impulse
    16 years ago

    Haha.. sounds to me like he hasn't done anything =p =p.. so the question is do YOU like him?