Depression/friendship advice

How do you get over losing a friend?
These past few days Ive been practically non stop crying because I lost my best mate. I cant get over her. Its been 4 months since we stopped talking and Ive started feeling reallly depressed. How do I get over the dpression?

I have been going through the same thing..me and my friend have just recently stopped being friends for no reason....just get out there and talk to new people...or you can call her up and tell how you feel...

Yah and i know your not supposed to put anything about it on here but it was self harm

I went threw the same thing,about a year ago well now 2 years ago,my best friend Laura of 5years. yeah It was hard,I still miss her but I realized her reasons for letting me go was her own mistake. so even tho I miss her I deal with the fact we both went different ways. I haven't seen or heard from her in a year & a half....

Since she was your best friend, I don't think it's gonna be really easy getting over the loss. And of course, it'll be hard. And I've gona through this a number of times; I've simply come to just forget, but I don't think it's what you should do. .It's okay that you're feeling sad about this, but I think the wayy to get over this is to talk to her and see what happened to your friendship, and why you two have stopped talking.

Yeah i trid talking to her. She walks away. I trie txtin her n she didnt boter reading them. I wrote her a letter trying to persuade her 2 talk 2 me. She ripped them up. Her other closest mates have told her to talk 2 me and she has ignored them. Even a teacher has tried and she wouldnt talk 2 me. She hates my guts. I wouldnt be suprised if she wishes i was dead. She stopped caring straught away she didnt even care that we stopped being ates n im here cryin coz i wanna be mates with her.

Why would you wanna be friends with someone who brushed you off like that so many times? You keep trying; she keeps ignoring. So instead of being the one that chases, why not just forget it? I know, it's hard. I lost over half of my best friends in the course of three days before -- but you just gotta deal with it. It'll take a while; you're gonna wanna keep bein' friends with her, but she obviously doesn't want to so instead of wasting the effort, get your mind off her and go do something -- a hobby. To relax. It'll help.

But I cant get over her!

Its the same thing with me my bff of 12 years just told me that im mean and that she hates and that her boyfriend told her to pick one so she picked her boyfriend and theres a whole lot more that i dont want to drag ya into but what i did was think about it the least i could and talk to my boyfriend about it that helped and just find other ppl to talk to

You should try to forget about her.
I mean, I know it'll be hard, because I have friends as close as you and her. And I know it's not easy to just get over someone like that. But the comment[s] above me are right. .Why would you wanna be friends with someone so. .well. I'm not allowed to write it here, but you get it right? And you don't have to just get rid of her altogether. Take it one step at a time, one day at a time, you know. :]

When me and my friend stoped talking for a while, I kept telling myself that I was better off without her and I didn't need her. And I wrote a lot of poetry about it. See if those will help you.

I agree with the advises given up there. You shouldn't care about a friend that doesn't want you. If she can't appreciate you as a person then she's not worth it at all. There's many things you can do to get your mind off of her. A hobby, working towards a goal, playing a MMORPG game etc. Whatever you enjoy and get absorbed in.
in the past, I've left some of my friends, lost some and for a moment I thought I was sad but then I remembered that friends come and friends go. Holding on won't help.

Just remember that a person who can't appreciate you isn't worth your time, tears, or drops of blood.

Sometimes it happens you know. My best friend and I have been friends since I was in the 6th grade...I'm now a senior. Well she graduated last year and recently she got married and she moved away...like 8 hours away. We havent spoken to one another in a while. Every once in a while I may get a little txt message, but its just not the same. So I can totally relate to your situation. To get over the depression of losing a friend, I really havent found the remedy for it yet.

I suggest go and talk to her....be lyk is it truely over? because i need to no, so i can move on...because i really miss you..

but if she doesnt acept you back...i mean lyk... just deal with it, dont let it depress you...it wasnt ment to be.....things do this all the time, thats life...but it makes u a stronger person...and hey there are better people out there...

good luck

Wow that must be heaps horrible
how are things now?
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