Tough times

Me and my boyfriend have been through so much! I almost did something so stupid...there was this guy and we were friends for a very long time then he told me he loved me...well my emotions kinda went crazy..i knew i loved my boyfriend but I also loved michael(the other guy). I almost broke up with my wonderful boyfriend for a asshole!! Michael ended up kissing another girl after he confessed his "passionate" love for me!! I didn't break up with my boyfriend but he knew everything...it took a toll on our relationship and he has trouble trusting me...and i don't blame him...we still love each other but it has done some damage....i wish i could take it all back and beat the crap out of michael

Lols I understand right where your coming from hun, I was there not that long ago =P I'm proud of you for staying strong and only almost doing something stupid lols This happens at times and it does take a hard toll on any relationship but if you two can make it through this together and prove to your boyfriend that your worthy of his trust then this will actually make you both stronger as well as your relationship ^_^

Best of luck sweetie

Damn girl, I guess that happens to everyone. I remember doing something like that when I was with someone, but I guess you learned from your mistake to never trust anyone besides your man. =]

You know what sweets. You've made a mistake and you know it and regret it and that is the first step.
The second step was not hiding it from your boyfriend and talking it out with him and you've already taken that step too which is excellent.
The last step is the hardest and that would be earning his trust again and the unfortunate thing is that will only take time.
I cheated on a boyfriend when i was much younger and the trust was gone was both of us and i broke up with him.
Hopefully, you two will be able to work it out as you seem geniunely sorry for what happened.
Amanda is right, it does take two to tango but the difference is you feel sorry for it and this Micheal doesn't seem to care one bit. At least you found that out before it was too late which is something to be thankful of.
I wish you and your boyfriend all the best. He loves you or he wouldn't stay with you so do your best to show him how much you love and appreciate him.
Good luck
*Gem*

Thank you all for all the advice...i really appreciate it....=) again thank you

Ha, I know your situation. I'm in it. Except I'm your boyfriend [figuratively speaking]. And the girl he likes is one of my [ex] best friends. [Ex because of this]. Sucks.

We learn from every mistake we make.

hope things are better

xx

This is kindof funny because i am basically going through the same thing and maybe i was ment to read this because i was planning on breaking up with my bf tonight....
thank you for sharing....
you probably just saved my relationship...

I've been in this situation sooooo many times.

It always sucks.

>.<