Need some opinion!

Hi guys hope u had a happy new year!

anyway, just needed some advice from u guys... coz i have a close friend(girl) for 8 years and shes kinda a good friend of mine but there are sometimes i was doubt of her friendship because i was thought shes such a user friend coz she just only remembered me everytime she needs a shoulder to cry on or to talk too and im always by her company though wherever she goes...

but recently she open up w/me that im only the one of her goodfriend that im the kind of very trusted friend for everything and i was touched what she said because i felt she never appreciate my friendship.

but the problem is.. my mom i dont know why she doesnt like her to be my friend and my mom said she's kinda untrustful person that shes is a slut. i know what my mom trying to say because my friend has a live in partner but her bf is married to other girl. so my mom doesnt like me to be same w/ my friend situation if ever. and we had already argument abour her... im mad w/my mom because everytime my friend called me on the phone shes always pretending that im not home.

yes.. my friend is not actually perfect but i understand her situation. and i dont mind whatever she is...and most important is her good friendship for poorer or for rich and for good or for bad were still be friend though we had kids and were living it different times.

I think that you should do what you think. If you think that this friend is worth keeping as a friend and that youlike her as a friend, then keep her as a friend. If your mom thinks that she is a bad influence you, try to reassure her that she isn't.

Ah a parents worst fear, that their child will turn out like someone else. As long as you have a good head on your shoulders and you make positive decisions in your life, that's all that matters, not all of our friends are going to be perfect and we are not always going to be perfect friends. Do what you feel is right and don't worry about anyone else.

Wow guys thanks.... i really appreciate it alot