The Ex: Returns?

Sounds kinda like a movie title..lol.

anyway, so in august i went out with a guy named jimmy for a very short period of time. he broke up with me because he "didnt want a girlfriend". so that sucked. and of course i liked him for a while. and we talked a little then we just stopped. until new years day. when 2008 struck i sent him along with many other ppl a text message saying "happy new year" then he replied and stuff, and next thing i know yesterday he calls me and we talk for an hr and a half. and we talk like nothing has changed and we're still together and what not.

so i guess my question is, should i even try to get him back? because afterall, he did promise he would never stop talking to me, and he did for like 4 months...and also he told me last night he'd call me this morning, and now it's 9:35pm and i haven't been called=/ he could have just not been able to though because his mom came home from out of town today? i dont know, i guess i'm just trying to make excuses.

or does it sound like he would even want meback based on what i've told you...? im so confused. i was over him until he called me. x.x now everything is back and im so confused. please helpppppp.

thanks <3

Ok.. maybe he does want to get back with you. But the more likely thing at the moment would be he wants to start up his friendship with you again.
He's talking to you a lot, he's texting you
When you text him happy new year, he probably realised how much he's missed you and therefore called you, lol.
I'd take it a day at a time. Don't rush into anything and let him come to you. There's still a lot of morning left for him to call. But like you said, he may not have had the chance yet.
Take it slow and don't jump into anything. Remember you broke up for a reason. Don'tr set yourself up for a fall.
Good luck
*Gem*

Well, something in this situation makes me remember of a past relationship of mine. It might be possible that he still wants to get back to you, but in another way, it seems like he was just trying to get your hopes up. If he didn't call, why didn't u call him or sent him a text? That's what I would've done if he didn't call. If he didn't text back, that would mean that he was just trying to get your hopes up. So, just send him the text or call to his cell. I hope this helped.

.:CiNdY:.

You know its 236 am and he still hasn't called me...I was expecting him to call like...around now because he usually does. But nothing...another possibilty is he just wants to use me? Idk. But I'm not gonna rush it I just wish I knew x.x

Well, you're just wasting your time expecting his call. It seems he's not worth the wait. So just keep forgetting him and don't worry so much about it.

Or you could call him..

Look, maybe something came up so to TPAM, how do you know he's not worth the wait. There have been plenty of times i'd say i'd call Marcus or he said he would call me and we haven't.

Yeah i just hate texting/calling people first. because im never sure that they want to talk to me, so i just wait for them to...meh i sent him a message on myspace tho. he didnt reply x.x

Well, to me it seems like he just wanted you to get your hopes up. Maybe Gem's right about something coming up, but there's always the possibility that he doesn't really wanna talk to you.

I dated a guy like 84872465 times b/c of this situation.
blah.
i wouldnt keep talking to him. not romantically

Well guys...im ready to say that he just got my hopes up for nothing...its been a long time. and yesterday i got up the nerve to text him and ask him why he never called, and he didnt answer. ouch. shot down. =[ how do i make myself happy again? i am in a lot of pain right now...its like he broke up with me all over again even if its over something so stupid as him not calling/replying to my text message.

i'm an over reacter..but it hurts...=[

Sweetie, there is no easy way to feel better over this.
At least you know deep down that he's not worth it and he must be so so stupid to shatter your trust like this again. He doesn't know how lucky he was to have someone like you in his life and he's blown it so it's all his own fault.
Hold your head high and remember you're better off without him, cos you are.
Good luck
*Gem*

Aw thanks:) I'll try