What do you do

What do you do when the man you love don't want to be with you and wants you to move on. He wants you in his life but just as friend. What do you do when you love him and he brings another gurl around. What do you do when the family loves you but he don't want you. What do you do when he says that long distance relationships are not possible. what do you do when you care for him and still have benefits with each other but when the other gurl comes around all that is gone. what do you do when you love him and all he wants is friendship. I'm hurting and i feel lost but what do you do??

You get over him.

Sorry for being harsh honey but he doesn't love you in that way and the only thing you can do is accept it and move on. You're young, i doubt he is the person you were going to marry and have kids with in the future.
Just leave it be and move on from him.

I tired i dated around and around me and him we have been friends for 3 years and he is the only one that knows me. He is like my best friend and someone that i like to spend my life with he is what i want

We don't all get what we want sweets and unfortunately i don't see you getting this.
He has made it clear that all he wants is to be friends and he seems to have moved on no problem which makes you question how much he felt for you in the first place.
I'm sorry for being the bearer of the truth but the only thing you can do is move on and distance yourself from him.
If you won't do that you're going to be feeling like this for a long time.
If you won't help yourself, no one else can help you either.

Yea i know and i ask him how does he feel and he says he loves me but he can't do that long distance again. Its like every time i distance myself he finds away back in my life he knows me to well and he knows what to say. I tired I really do I go for 3 weeks not talking but he texts me and then its like here we go again. its like a broken record and i know that but its hard and i tired. I know my friends tell me but how do i let go. I want to break all ties but how do you do that when the only person that can make you smile. and do i have to break ties with his family

So you saying stay friends with him even if i hurt??

Long distance? how far apart are you two?

It doesn't matter how far apart they are, the fact is, he has made it clear that friends are all they are going to be and the sooner she accepts that, the better!

I guess just get over him thats all you can do.

We was only 1hour and 30 mins away. Okay yea i have to move on but what do you do when he is the one you want and yea i know i have to expect and once i do that then i know i wont be hurting but i know he is the guy that i want

Yea its true if i love him then i shoud be happy for him but who is going to be happy for me. where do i find my happiness. He is the one that took me this far. If i didn't have him then i wouldn't be in college right now but doing what my parents wanted me to. with him i feel that i can do anything. and yea i can't help the way i feel

I know how bad it hurts. but he's pretty far away. He's doing his own stuff now. You're in college, there's lots of people in there. why not use that to meet someone from there?

I met alot but its like he knows me and its like theres no one like him. They say im not trying hard enough but i have what do i do

It's always hard to accept and move on.
but it's something i had to do.
it actually took me a couple years.
but it's true that the sooner you accept, the better.
don't wait and hope thing'll get better.
because i did, and it didn't work out the i wanted it to.
simply move on. .even if it hurts.

Thanks all of you for helpin me. I decide to move on and be happy. i guess the only way to be happy is to let go even when it hurts the most but thank you. Wish me luck

My best friend is in the same situation..She is struggling because she loves him but he doesnt want her around..well he only wants her for sex then he tells her to leave and threatens to kill her...

Look I'll tell you what I've told her... If he doesnt want you the only thing to do, is go on and say you dont want him. You have to let go..Thats the only thing left to do. You have to push yourself away and stop the addiction to him. No more communication would help, maybe even just finding a new man would help a bit.It is best to forgive and forget meaning You forgive him for all the pain he has caused you then You forget him.

I dont know what else I can say to help but I hope this did it :/

I send a lot of support your way because my friend is going through the same thing and I can sense the pain.
-Hugs && Kisses-