How do i tell him the secret of my past?

You see i was sexually malested by my ex when i was 10. then again by one of my cousins when i was 12. and i am not sure how to tell him, or if i want too...he deserves to know why i'm not ready to sleep with him yet or why i might not be able to be at a curtin place doing curtin things... i just wanted to see if anyone knew how i can tell him this...b/c my ex is back at school and he is friends with my b/f it's this big web and i need A LOT of help from my friends at P&Q

I want to tell him but i'm not sure how.

Tell him and please don't do it in a note... if you do then you are only running away. Trust him to understand and if he loves you then he will wait.
Good luck

Just sit him down and be honest with him. Once he hears this he will love you so much more and not only that...he will trust you more. That is what i did anyways. And the guy that i was with loved me and treated me so much better after i told him. and I felt better about myself because i knew that i was no longer hiding anything from him

Psh.. my ex knew i was, 2ce. and yet he proceeded to do the same.
[some] men are pigs.
*spits on ground*

In one month into my relationship, my boyfriend, Chris, did soemthing stupid by accident that triggered a reaction in me similiar to the ones I had at the time my ex had hurt me. He knew I had been hurt in the past so he really kept saying how he F-ud our relationship or at least he thought he did. I told him somewhat that day and he took it well enough saying that it didn't change who I was. I'm a closed case to most people, my ex still goes into my life on and off, and I always felt like I was living one huge secret, but tell if you are sure you are ready. Because I can't trust most people to hear my story, I talk to people who need help, who don't know my past until I tell them, and don't know me.

Still with Chris :)

If hes anything close to a caring guy he'll definetly understand why you don't want to... And if you tell him and he still pressures you into it your way to good for him... But im aboslutly sure he'll understand if you tell him.