Should I stay?

  • babyPB
    16 years ago

    Well, me & my ex [on & off for more than a year] are used to the fact that we're not always dating but we're still attached to each other. Our relationship is not perfect - thats for sure. Everytime I make a mistake I tell him immediately insetad of keeping it from him. While he does the other way around. How do I know if he never told me? People just tell me accidentally, ex. I asked a friend if "sideline girl" likes anthony; then my friend told me "they dated, you didn't know that?". That kind of thing, like you hear everything when you're not even expecting it. Me & him argued about this a number of times, and he is still denying it. But it all makes sense to me, his best friend told me to back off cuz they're together by 2nd quarter then he took his word back around after they talked; sideline girl keeps on messing with him and he doesnt tell her to back off starting 2nd quarter; my friend told me they dated twice around 2nd quarter; etc. I mean, it just makes sense. I love him, but he keeps everything from me - which hurts me more than him being honest. He tells me even though his actions doesnt seem like it, he really wants to be with me but how come his actions seem like it when he & that sideline girl are together but not his heart. It's [bs]. I told my friends about this, they said a lot of versions that still means: "he's playing me". Should I stay or leave? I'm so confused. :[

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    You know what girl, I agree with your friends. It really does seem like he's playing you and he doesn't deserve you. I've dated some players and that's a sign that he's playing you. You should definately let him go, even if he tells you he wants you, it's not worth it. Guys like that are not worth it. I realy hope this helps you out and you find someone better.

    .:CiNdY:.

  • babyPB
    16 years ago

    Aaw. i bet you know better, so yeah ; thank you. i appreciate it. ill try my best to move on.

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    I hope you make the right choice. ^_^

    If you ever need any help with anything, don't hesitate to send me a PM all right. Take care! =]

    .:CiNdY:.

  • babyPB
    16 years ago

    Aaw. i just noticed my ex's name is your baby boy's name. :) thats so cute.

    && thank you sooo much. :]

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    Aw, really? That's funny. ^_^

  • babyPB
    16 years ago

    "leave with your heart then stay without love"
    ^^ My favorite. I will keep that in mind.

    And thank you, I really appreciate it. :]
    I trust all of youh. <33

  • Im So OVER IT
    16 years ago

    Wow thats a toughy. Do what You feel is best. But I would Leave and Move on. This is not worth the heart ache

  • babyPB
    16 years ago

    Yes. it is very tough. :'(
    its so confusing. </3 i cant take it anymore while at the same time, i think he;s worth the pain. i dont get it anymooore. ugh. :'(

    and i love your icon: "sometimes, the person you want the most you're better off without"

    but thanx though. i appreciate the advice

  • Im So OVER IT
    16 years ago

    Your welcome

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    Yeah, her icon is absolutely true, but not all the time. But in ur case, it does go to you.

  • babyPB
    16 years ago

    Y e s . :] thanx for agreeing.

  • babyPB
    16 years ago

    Y e s . :] thanx for agreeing.

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    Hope everything works out 4 u
    and the next person u meet sweeps u off ur feet
    gd luck

    xx