I dont kno how to tell him i love him!

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Im goen crazy!!! everytime i see him and talk to him i fall more in love with him!! he is the only thing that makes me want to live!! and i worry cuz i dont think i could live without him!!! and i mean we both kno wwe liike each other alot and i mean we've dated and talked for bout a 1 1/2 now.....how do i tell him i love him..........im scared he wont feel the same way!

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    Well, just be straight up. Tell him in person though because over the phone or the comp, etc., it's gonna be hard to know if he feels the same way. It would be a good time when the two of you go on a date or something, but just let him know. Even if he might not feel the same way, but at least you'll let him know exactly what you feel. I hope this helped.

    .:CiNdY:.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Ya and i just hope he dont think im a freak for tellen him!

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    Ha ha, I don't think he'll say you're a freak.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Well idk lol im jsut scared i guess.....is that normal?

  • Im So OVER IT
    16 years ago

    Well I told my ex that I loved him a month ago. I somehow just said it out of nowhere. But im in your situation cuz I think I have feelings for his friend..Im still trying to tell him

  • L0V3 Mi fAMilY
    16 years ago

    I guess it is pretty normal to be scared of telling someone how you really feel, but you've gotta tell him how you feel. Or else this is gonna go on forever and you might end up losing him and I know you don't want that.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Omg no i would die iwth out him!

  • ilovenicole
    16 years ago

    Im not gonna lie and got a bit drunk one night... and told her i loved her. And its the truth i had loved her for like 6 months and now were together. Im not saying get wasted and tell him.
    Just tell him sure its freakin' scary but once you do it --if hes a nice guy-- he will accept it and give you a chance.

  • ilovenicole
    16 years ago

    ...

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Ur story sounds just like him....... cuz he told me he loved me but i dont kno if he was wasted or not!

  • ilovenicole
    16 years ago

    Just ask if he meant it. Tell him tell him that you love him. PLEASE!!! PLEASE TELL HIM... its the only thing you can do

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    ^ He's right, you should ask him if he meant it and it he tells you that he did, you should tell him at that instant. That'll be the best time for you to tell him that you love him.

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    ^ He's right, you should ask him if he meant it and it he tells you that he did, you should tell him at that instant. That'll be the best time for you to tell him that you love him.

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    ^Sorry, my comp is going crazy. =P

    ^ Hey I just noticed my man gave you some advice. Ha ha, how cute. ^_^

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    ^ whos ur man???

    and ya i want to but wat if he says no or worst wat if he says WAT ARE U TALKEN BOUT!

  • FlawlesslyTarnished
    16 years ago

    I know exactly how this feels. [sort of] there's this guy, i don't really LOVE him per say, I mean, I do, but I just love him as my best friend.. And he's a major part of my life and he's impacted me and i know i've definitely impacted him. But he's one of my best friends and I need him in my life, otherwise I feel like I can't survive.
    I think you should find a way to tell him. Find a way comfortable for you, to try and make it easier, you know. But don't wait too long to say something. My best friend, I liked him. [not anymore] but I waited too long to say something and it ended up being too late. .So I'm not saying do it as soon as possible! Just don't take too muhc time to do or say something. :]

  • ilovenicole
    16 years ago

    I told my gf or at least who i want to be my gf and she trying her hardest to give me a chance. You have to tell him or else you will never no if hes is/was the perfect guy.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Ya but its just so hard at school theres those moments where im jsut about to say it them idk i cant!! ive tried so hard but its grr hard!

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    ^_^ ha ha, my man is the one that has a pic of our dog and his pic.

    You know, I don't think he'll tell you that. If you say he told you he loved you, you should ask him if he meant him. Now, if he tells you "what are you talking about", then he was just playing with your feelings and a man like that shouldn't deserve a girl like you. ^_^ but I still say go for it and tell him how you feel.

  • ilovenicole
    16 years ago

    Its easyer on msn or the phone

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    Actually, it's not easier on the phone or on msn because what if you tell them like that, and they start laughing at you. I mean, I'm not saying it's gonna happen, but it's a possibility. That's why it's easier in person.

  • ilovenicole
    16 years ago

    Ya... well i guess it depends on who you are really

  • ilovenicole
    16 years ago

    It was easyer for me

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    Yeah, you're absolutely right. It does depend on who you are.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Ya idk im still scared lol!!! well on monday ill try to tell him at school IN PERSON! and ill tell u guys how it goes!

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    All right cool. I wish you luck!!! ^_^

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Thanks lol i think im goen to need it!!!

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Grri couldnt do it today!

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    Don't worry, you'll get a chance to do it one of these day. =]

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    I mean i had so many appertunities too cuz we were with each other all freaken day!!! but i just nvr had enough courage to do it!

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    ^ Fang has a point, maybe you should do that. But you've gotta do it girl. Before someone else tells him they love him. You have to have a lot of courage and just tell him.

  • Jamie Lorraine
    16 years ago

    It is better to tell him then to leave things unsaid

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    If only i could if it were my last day to live YES i would tell him but it aint...and i mean if it were my last day and i told him and he was wierd bout it i would only have to deal with it that day not forever!

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Ik......and wat u jsut said to me now ik wat im goen to do!! im goen to be straight up and tell him!

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    16 years ago

    ^ I agree with Amanda, she's definately right. You probably are afraid to be rejected, but if that happens all the time, you're just gonna end up losing him.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Ya

  • ilovenicole
    16 years ago

    I told my gf know tell yours ok!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pleassssseeeeeeeeee Itll' make you feel SOOO much better.

  • ilovenicole
    16 years ago

    It took me about a month b4 i finaly worked up the courage

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Yaaaaa