My ex is back and wants me back but i have a b/f

So i talked my exboyfriend last night, he said all those things that i always hoped he'd say. But it's a little to late b/c i have a new boyfriend. I love my boyfriend yet a part of me is still in love with my exboyfriend. i don't know what to do. most of you will say that i'm stupid and to stay with my boyfriend. but i love my ex and i always said that i'd never let anyone get between me and my ex b/c we were so in love. but i do love my boyfriend and don't want to hurt him.

Who dumped who?

I say stay with your boyfriend. A guy can say anything you want him to say, but that doesn't mean he can back it up. Your ex already had a chance with you and screwed up. Move on. If you were meant to be with this guy, you two wouldn't have broken up. Give your boyfriend a chance, don't break his heart so your ex can just break yours. Good luck.

~Kayla~

OMG. I am in the same situation. I talked to my ex and he really wants to get back together but me and my boyfriend have been together over a year. I'm torn.
In all honesty though all you can really do is choose who ever makes you happier. What ever you fell is right.
Either way someone is going to end up hurt in the end so you should choose the one that you can see yourself with in 10 years. Or even longer than that. Who ever makes you happier... choose him!

So i told him...here's the conversation:
REVSSVER (1:43:25 PM): i need to tell u something
REVSSVER (1:43:42 PM): but i'm not sure how ur gonna take it
(1:44:09 PM): Wat
REVSSVER (1:45:03 PM): yesturday i called mike, my brother was getting on my nerves and i couldn't get a hold of you. he said somethings i wish he hadn't
(1:45:44 PM): Wats that
REVSSVER (1:46:37 PM): he said he was sorry for cheating on me and that if he could do it over again he'd do it differently. he told me he still loved me and...
(1:48:08 PM): And wat did u say
REVSSVER (1:48:34 PM): I told him the truth...
(1:49:07 PM): Wats that
REVSSVER (1:49:53 PM): that it didn't matter, that i love you now. i told him the most i can be with him is friends
(1:52:27 PM): Thats good im proud of u i know how hard that was 4 u
I'm REVSSVER and i was txting to his phone. but he seemed to take it well...what do u think?

It seems like he did take it rather well, but since you said you were texting him maybe he felt kind of bad. I think you should stay with your boyfriend because since your ex had already hurt you, that doesn't mean he won't do it again, even if he says he won't. A guy like that is not much worth it. Your ex had a chance with you and he broke your heart, so I say you should just stay with your bf. Hope this helped.

.:CiNdY:.

I think you should stay away from both of them. You seem to be throwing the L word around too loosely, and I think maybe you need some time alone to figure out what you actually want. That's what I would do anyways.

And I have to ask- how serious can this ex be? You said in another post you've been with your boyfriend for 7 years. It can't be THAT big of a deal if you dated him when you were nine years old. Just curious.

Just tell him how u feel but the most important thing of all dont lie to yourself i went threw almost the same thing as you and now i regret it

I think you should choose the best between the two whyl its not to Late. yeah =) en u should ask 4 a sign. ihihi.

Maybe her ex didn't want to break up. Sometimes in certain situations couples are forced to seperate. That's when it's bad... you try to move on find someone else and ignore your feelings for them. Then when they have the chance to come back into your life they do! Then all of those feelings that you have been trying to cover up start surfacing again. So if it was a situation like this then I could see where she was coming from.
if you have a good relationship though then I wouldn't through it away. You need to decide who you have more feelings for though so that you can just get it over with. One of them is going to end up hurt either way.

My ex cheated on me...he deserves me hating him. but i can't help but to not hate him...does that make sense?

REVS

I hated my ex, he still makes me angry, but I kept falling for him despite everytime bringing pain and agony until I fell apart. My ex called a couple of days ago, I missed the call, but when he called back the next day, I told my bf the day after when he said I looked troubled, and he wanted to know why I would even pick up. He knows all my ex did was hurt me worse than anyone. If your ex hurt you, then he has no place for your heart.

Thanks everyone...this really helped...things are going to get better, i can feel it!

Don't second guess yourself and your feelings about your boyfriend. there is a reason that he is your ex. things didn't work out the first time so what makes you think that they are going to work this time? stay with your boyfriend

Stay with ur boyf he sounds nice
and yeah I agree if he is your ex it should stay that way,

xx

I was always stuck in that same situation.
it happened with an ex... we were on and off for 3 years. Everytime i had someone new in my life he would come back and tell me he liked me and that he was in love with me still... i never took him back until i broke up with the bf i was with... but it never worked out...
i think you should just stay with your bf and if it works out it works out if it doesnt then it happens for a reason....

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Wow, ... all I can say is good luck. You're stuck.

Exes always have a way of coming back at the worst time possible..