How do you know if you are in love????

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    How do you know if you are in love i need to know most ppl just say " you just know" but i need to know plz!!!

  • Brittney
    16 years ago

    Your not in love if you have to ask. Those people that told you that were right. You will know when you are in love.

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    I was just asking i mean i figured if i had to ask then i wasnt but i just wanted to know if there was i diff answer than you just know

  • Brittney
    16 years ago

    You'll feel like a whole new person. You will know that some thing has changed.

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    Thanks at sometimes i would but i think it was just lust like a caught up in the moment kinda things with him it would seem like a high school romance like ok this is one of the things i dont really like he would do that whole you hang up the phone first and you get it but i guess i found flaws theres more then just that but also it was long distance and we started to go out right before he was deployed
    and how he just stopped calling after a while and still wanted to be together the whole call thing was after he got back so he could call me when ever but he decided to wait a month so yeah that kinda sucked for me but i think i still like him i just dont know?

  • sibyllene
    16 years ago

    It's more than just cute things. There's no checklist, where if you can check off a certain number of cute sayings and warm fuzzies, it means you're in love. Like stated above, it's as if your whole being has shifted - focused, centered, changed. If they were gone, you wouldn't just miss them... you'd be missing a part of who you are.

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    Yeah it is a thing you know. No questions in ur mind just warm fuzzyness, the fuzzyness of love hehe

    xx

  • StandStill
    16 years ago

    I agree. you know you're in love when there is not a doubt in your mind. when you just KNOW.

  • StandStill
    16 years ago

    I agree. you know you're in love when there is not a doubt in your mind. when you just KNOW.

  • Babydoll
    16 years ago

    Your not inlove if you have 2 ask,like brittney said, you just fell it, and it's amazing, I'm in luv with this guy, and we have been dating 4 a year and a half today.

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    When your in love all you think about is that person. I was in love with this guy and I never wanted to be away from him. And like everyone else said it is not something that you have to think about you just know it.

  • ~me~
    16 years ago

    I think being in love is different for each person
    you never know what its going to feel like
    ..... i think you have to work it out for yourself
    but i think you would know or have an idea about it
    Mabey if you are doubting your scared of it... learn to embrace it girl
    x ^^^^^^that was all idea's seeing as i have never been in love before
    XXXXXXX

  • XLOSTxxANDxxWANDERINGX
    16 years ago

    I thnk that u'll just know in your heart
    when you see the person ur heart skips a beat you cant be with out them u'll know trust me

  • mrsmoore
    16 years ago

    They do little things... just because they know you like it.

    They take the initiative to listen to your likes and dislikes... and then make sure to do them or not to do them.

    They want to talk to all the time. calling at crazy hours just to tell you they were thinking about you.

    Letters and cards for no reason.

    You think about each other at every waking moment.

    You have it set in your mind and in your heart that this is THE ONE. You see a future with this person. This person makes you happy and you don't want to feel any other way.

    Just a few things i guess... i could write a book!

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    There's no legitimate checklist for this. Maybe there is for young teenage infatuation, I don't know. Seven out of ten? You love him!

    Personally, it just hit me one day. It wasn't a "he sent me flowers, called me three times last night, and wrote me a love note on the back of a plane" kind of thing. It was more of a "Damn, when did THAT happen?". Seriously, you'll know. I always thought people were annoying for saying that, but there's no other way to explain it. Nobody can tell you when you do.