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Ok so i have been with this guy for 11 months this month. i am so happy with him and he is really happy with me. I talk to him everyday but we don't call each other we text. We hang out on the weekends or the days i don't have school. But I want to see him more and hang out with him more but if i were to see him on the school days then we can't go anywere those days because it is my moms rule. Well anyway, Most of the time when we hang out we are over his house with him mom. I really like his mm but i don't think she likes me very much. I do as much as possible over there. When we are over there it seems like she really doesn't like me. for example i was over there this weekend and we were talking and we got on the subject about driving and he made it seem like i shouldn't be drving. then there was this other time we were talking about relationships and she was nagging me and my boyfriend about our age difference because he is 20,almost 21, and i am 17, just turned 17. And when i am not around her she is always telling him to get a girl around his age. Like when they went on their curise in sept. before they left she was like yea there are going to a ton of girls your age. I really like his mom and all i just don't think she likes me but yea.What do you think? How is everyone elses life with boyfriends going.?

I fell bad for you, but just keep doing what you're doing, it's not your fault she doesn't like her, that's her problem not yours.

And me andmy b/f have been together almost 5 months. His mother and father love me and so does his sister and his niece and nephew...They all keep asking him to marry me...lol...Aso 3 of his cousins and one of his granmother's loves me too... Although I know of 5 of his cousins that don't like me, but they also don't like my b/f for various reasons so we just stay away from them.

I've come to realize that all mom's are like that. They way I see it, is they don't think you're good enough for their son. Trust me, that happens most of the time. But shouldn't bother your relationship with your man. If you guys really like each other, you'll get through it.

As for me and my fiance, we've been together for a year and 7 month today. His mom doesn't like me either and she never has. Now, when my son was born 2 months ago, she started acting a bit more friendly. I think it's just because we made her a grandma. My man know that his mom doesn't like me, and he's cool with it because sometimes they can't stand each other, but oh well. That's my story.

.:CiNdY:.

Oh my, how do I put this....

As a parent I must agree that most moms will never like the girl their son brings home and most dads will never like the men that their daughters bring home.

It is very complicated, but in all honesty.. I think we view it as a threat. We are losing our child to this person and it terrifies us.

It is very hard for a parent to accept the fact that their is grown and able to make their own decisions. It is painful to wake up one morning and realize that they no longer need us; little alone that their is another person in their life taking care of them and doing the basic things that we use to do and still in a strange way still want to do.

Sure, we complain about all the laundry, cooking all the meals, the money, the bills, and everything, but when it comes down to it.... we would rather provide everything for our child then watch someone else step in and do it.

Instead of always helping her... (continue to do that by the way)... find a project that she could help you with and see if that will help bring you two together.

I hope this helps some

~~Sher

Wow I totally agree with that ^^^
yeah just maybe pull her aside and tell her how much u like her and respect her. ask if u can help around the house or run an errand. make her see ur a nice girl. even make her something. bring her flowers when u go over next. something like that.
let me know how it goes. PM me if ya wish i prolly wont check this again
all the best

xx