This Stupid Girl

My boyfriend is the greatest, he's funny and nice and everything that i could ask for. but his ex gf is making me sooo mad. she will go up and talk to him about other girls and try to flirt with him when she sees me starting to come up and talk to him. i cannot stand her. what should i do about it?

He can't stand her either. i hear him tell his friends that she is a slu*. but she just makes me so mad trying to steal him or what ever she's tryin to do. it's not gonna work.

You know what girl, I'm going through kind of the same thing with my fiance. The best thing for you to do is talk to him. He needs to know that it bothers you. That's the best thing you could do. If she keeps doing it, then talk to her personally. I hope this helped. =]

.:CiNdY:.

^ Angelina's idea works also. I definately would do that.

Hehe, i like Angelina's idea.

Or if all else fails you sit your boyfriend down, tell him you're not putting up with this any longer and he better tell her to leave him alone, if she hears this from him, she may take the hint and be too mortified to keep trying it on with him. He can't be telling her to bugger off if she keeps coming back can he? So he's to blame as well.

If she hears it from him then maybe she will get the message through her head and finally leave him alone. he has got to tell her that it is over and that he is happy with you.

I think angelinas idea works! lol =]

Talk to her. tell her what she's doing is pathetic. if that doesn't work, tell your boyfriend this is bothering you and ask him to talk to her. if that fails, it can't be that hard for both of you to just ignore her. after the silent treatment for a while she'll get the message.

You really do have to show her whos boss. as weird as it sounds. but then again, im a vengeful female dog. haha. next time she comes up, and interrupts you [does she interrupt you?] say, exCUSE me, im having a conversation. or somethign like that. if you let her come up and talk to him while u r, she'll continue to. derh.

Hun i had that problem before tell your bf to rev the shit out of her and be there with him yelling at her and pash in frount of her

Ok babe, i have the same problem. I beat this girls a** cuz she just didnt know how to back off, i was dopped up on pain pills cuz i just got out of surgery and she stormed up to my barracks room all drunk and fired up, she went to hit me, and i took her ass to the ground. Tell your man that it bothers you, show that you get jealuos, but trust me, they dont like it when you go all crazy. I say that if he doesnt like her anymore, then there is no harm with her talking to him. i understand your frustration, but he is entilted to his own friends. my boyfriend still talks to his ex, and im still friends with mine. i dont want them anymore, but im a peaceful person, so i try to keep the peace. just act like it doesnt bother you.

I think that before you get violent (Wink wink ^^) umm...lol you should talk to her and let her know that you dont think she is respecting you or your relationship and just see what happens.

^ She has a point, but since she's been doing all those things, I say just get violent, lol. That isn't the best thing to solve the problem, but it has worked for me before so I know what you feel.

Let her know who is in charge, tell her she is pathetic and nothing she can do will get your boyfriend,
tell he she snoozed she lost. haha.
gd luck
plus if ur boyf doesnt like her either u dont have anything to worry about there

stay well
xx

Have him tell her to go away. adn then go talk to her. tell her u think it's crappy what she's doing...tell him to do the same.