I dont know what to do...i need your advice...

Yesterday the mother of my ex boyfriend called me up...she tells me that her husband wants to have a talk with me because he just came from other country where he works...they ask me if i can go to their house this weekend....what an i going to do? should i go?

Not a chance hes your ex , honey! you dont stay over with your ex thats just not right , well first whats the whole story

Thanks for the advice...

here's the story..

we broke up for 2 years now..but we remain friends and his family...we still have communication and im really close to the whole family..one of her niece is my godchildren... maybe thats one of the reasons why im really close to them...

i really dont know what to do..because even the other members of the family wants me to visit them..they on texting me...

^ I agree with Alone, but if they treat you like your part of the family and they're totally ok with you. Then what the heck, you could go. I mean, only if you want to. Do the whole family know that you guys broke up?

Yes they know...

im really confused because a part of me want to come, they treat me as part of the family they were all ok to me...
a part of me is afraid...afraid and shy to talk with his father...because were not that close his working abroad and he is in the country he stay for a month only..this the first time he invites me and have a talk with him...

^ I see it a bit awkward that he wants to meet you, but I guess it's for something good, right? In the end, it's your decision to do what you want. If you don't feel right about going, you don't have to. It's your decision, not anyone else's. Do you get me? I hope this helped.

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I don't understand why his dad wants to meet you? You're not with his son anymore and haven't been for a while. Whats he got to do with you?

I don't get it, if ya'll are broken up why does his dad want to meet you? it seems kinda pointlness to me

I dont see what the big deal is with not visiting them, they seem like very nice people, and i still keep in touch with my ex's family. even if you n him are not longer together, it doesnt mean you have to ounish the rest of the family. obviously they know you and him are no longer together, but they still like you.. so i would go and see what they want, if you feel uncomfortable, then tell the dad how you feel, that you dont feel comfortable being at the house of your ex, and he will understand.

Thankz for the advice guyz...!

up to this time im still confused... i love his family and i love being with them...yesterday his brother texted me again and asking if i can come coz their dad is really looking forward to see me again..
they say their dad really wants to have a talk with me...

today is Saturday here in the philippines they want to me to come tomorrow Sunday...

il tel you guys if what will happen...if I will be accepting the invitation or not...

ur advices helped me.

Well i can see why you would be worried but i dont see why you wouldnt want to go...just go and see what happens...good luck

Yeah gd luck hope it went well if u went

xx