This is Just so CRAZY

Okay. I think Im finally over my ex boyfriend. I mean I dont cry anymore over what he did to hurt me. But I still care about him. Like last night when He was upset. I stopped everything I was doing to make sure he was okay and I didnt leave until I saw a real smile. It came in like 3 minutes. But I still have feelings for this other guy, who is just so difficult in telling how I feel. I mean He told ppl that I was like special, and that He could see Me and Him like one day together. But he dont act like it. like if I call him one day. He's like all about me. Then the next day that I call. it seems like something happened or he's not feeling good at all. But we like go to different schools now. So it would be hard to date cuz without me there girls would be sayin he's doing stuff, just so I would leave him. Cause he did have that past with cheating. But I think he's respected girls alot more sense he met me. And Im thinking about going back to the school where he is. And he said if I did it would be Me and him straight off. I really like him a lot. Like I dont care about his past at all. I care about him. I mean. There is no such thing as a perfect guy. What should I do?

Ex boyfriends are ex boyfriends for a reason. If you're over him then stay that way- don't let him back in as any more than a friend.

As for the other guy. At 15, you should NOT be switching schools just to be with a boy. You should never make such a huge decision for no reason other than a boy.

Also- I'm not going to say that he will definitely cheat on you, because I don't believe that 'once a cheater always a cheater' thing. But you have to remember that he is still young and immature, and although he will one day grow up, he probably hasn't yet. You may think he respects women now, but I find it hard to believe he will treat you any different than his last girlfriends.

I guess I'm basically saying if you want to date him then go ahead, but proceed with caution. And don't switch schools for him- that is an incredibly immature decision.

Im not switching for him. i miss my old school and plus he is like 17 about to turn 18 pretty soon. but he is a sophmore right now

I stick with what I said, even if he is older. He's still not grown up completely, and it would be unwise to assume you can or have changed him.

That's cool that you still care about your ex, but he's your ex for a reason. As for the other guy, I don't know what to say. I think you're a bit too young to be switching schools for just some guy. If he says he likes you, being in different schools shouldn't stop you from being together. I hope this helped. =]

.:CiNdY:.

Yes

Ex should stay ex.
thats all i have 2 say
but gd luck with what u do
hope u find the right guy
u can pm me netime

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