please help

  • helena
    19 years ago

    hi who ever reads this..ive been with my boyfriend just over 9 mnths and wer together everday at school, lately we went through a bit of a ruf patch, things havnt been the same i really love him but i hate us being like this, he says he wants to spend more time with his friends, the thing is when we got together i stopped hanging round with my group of friends and now have no real friends, i feel so lonely and dont know what to do, do you think hes bored with me, im hurting so much, any advice given i would be very greatful :'( x-x-x-x-x

  • helena
    19 years ago

    he wants to spend more time with his friends now and i feel like ive got no one because the friends i had i stopped hanging around with so i could spend more time with him, now 9 months later he wants 2 spend more time with his friends and i feel like ive got nobody, iv never felt so alone in my life, ive been cryin all the time its not like me , does he not love me anymore?does he even care?

  • olivia
    19 years ago

    dont cry!!!! =( if teh friends you stopeed hanging with stopped being ur friends all together just cause you spent more time with your bf then they wernet much of friends to begin with. real friends stay by your side reagrdless if you see them every day or when you get a free moment.now as far as your bf guys tend to need space evry now and then espeacially if youve dated long and if they feel a lil crowded now dotn freak out!!.space doenst mean he wants to break up now so talk to him make sure taht even though he wnats to chill wit his friends more that there isnt a porbelm in your realtionship.as long as you still see him he treats you teh same he still tells you he loves you and isnt going after other girls dotn worry. really best thing is to talk it out so your not left feeling unsure.a realtionship is all about communication. good luck.

  • Elise
    19 years ago

    Dont worry, his reaction is absolutly normal...of course he loves you, but he needs to spend time with his friend and just be a guy, i think he just wants to live his life and not be stuck with you all the time, not that u are boring, but you kno what i mean..... !! u know what guys are like, they need freedom and hate it when they are controled...or it could just be a bad moment but if your love is very strong it will countinue!!!

  • helena
    19 years ago

    thanx for your help its kinda made me feel a bit better x-x-x-x