Uhm.. A Problem?

  • Chris
    16 years ago

    Well.. It's quite confusing, so I think I'll start from the beginning.
    I started going with my girlfriend about 2 years ago.. She was the most perfect thing that ever happened in my life. Oh.. I have to note this was a long-distance relationship. I wasn't the best at making friends and well.. I can talk a lot easier through the internet. She seemed too good to be true, even though she had some problems. Okay, i'll skip forward.
    About the start of December, she made some new friends. About that time, she started completely ignoring me.. I didn't understand it at all. She wouldn't answer my calls, and if she did then she'd say she was busy and hang up promptly.. she didn't even send me a christmas, or birthday present. Then today.. I asked her about everything, about getting to talk to her more, and why she was ignoring me. She told me it was over. =[ I was devastated. I dunno whether I should've put this in the self-harm thread, but I cut myself pretty badly on my arm.
    I don't know how to even start to get over her, she meant the world to me. I even gave her an engagement ring which she accepted, and I was going to live over there in September, and visit before that. She said she might think about it in September.. its just the thought of her with somebody else.. It'd kill me.

  • jennylyn
    16 years ago

    It seems you really build your future with her. but some things were meant to be happen. you may not knw the reason now but im sure eventually you will know..but for now try try to accept that she's not with you anymore.especially if you've done everything to win her back but nothing happens maybe its time to move on and go on with your life..

  • Dark Secrets
    16 years ago

    Awwwwww.... she should be happy to have had u as a bf ... ask her why she left you and if she tells you find out if and how u can get her back .. if she doesn't tell u or there is no way to get her back move on ... find someone who deserves you... I'm sure many girls would want u.
    PS: take this in mind, try making your relationships more forward and even if they're long distance, get closer when it gets more serious

  • hadia
    16 years ago

    Whatever is meant to happen, will happen.

    i hope you feel better!